2006-12-14 07:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by angelgril@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are going to hate anybody your dad dates because it not your mother. try to get along with her if you give her half a chance you might like her as a person
2006-12-14 09:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by notes from an angry white chic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, honestly you are going to have to give him space.
I mean he needs to be happy to.
Who is to say that he just want date around and not just her.
But give her a chance to. You never know.
When my mom married my stepdad I hated him. I would tell him things like...don't unpack your bags because my dad is coming back.
And then I finally gave him a chance and ended up treating me better than my dad did.
Just try it and see how it goes.
2006-12-14 08:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in "the woman"'s shoes, with the kids hating me. Their selfish spoiled brat behavior put a huge strain on their relationship with their father, and he and I ended up moving thousands of miles away, primarily to get away from them and live in peace without their abuse. Now they hardly ever see their father. Things could have been different and we could have all gotten along and been normal if they could have grown up a little. I have no respect for them whatsoever; they are pathetic. Grow up, or you are only going to hurt yourself, and your father.
2006-12-14 12:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WENT THROUGH THE WHOLE THING WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I TOTALLY HATED THE WOMAN MY DAD DATED SHE WAS ONLY 15 YRS OLDER THAN ME. BUT I TOLD HER OFF ONE DAY AND SHE TOTALLY STEPPED BACK AND MY DAD DIDN'T KNOW WHY SHE DIDN'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM. I SAW HOW HURT MY DAD WAS SO I DECIDED THAT HIS HAPPINESS MEANT MORE TO ME THAN MY SELFISHNESS.
OH AND MY DAUGHTER IS ACTING THE SAME WAY SHE DOESN'T KNOW HER DAD BUT I AM DATING AND SHE HATES BUT MY OTHER TWO LOVE IT.
2006-12-14 08:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dad has the right to date whomever he pleases. It's not your place to judge or crticize him. I'm guessing there is some hostility for her because she's not your mother. Just keep quiet and accept it.
2006-12-14 08:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can do....its his life and he can do what he wants.
...you'll be screaming those exact words when your dad doesn't agree with you on something he doesnt like:
"ITS MY LIFE AND I CAN DO WHAT I WANT"
think about it.
2006-12-14 10:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up.
2006-12-14 08:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
get on with ur own life
2006-12-14 08:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by myspacelover 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋