So I asked a question awhile back about what to do with my boyfriend who lied about going to the strippers. I didn't get my point across. My entire life I have told men I do not care about them going to the strippers. I have even gone to the female strippers and it is not a big deal. I have asked them not to lie because that will make me suspisious. Why can't they just tell the truth instead of lying? I hate lies I don't hate the strippers. But really hate when guys lie about going the stippers. You only lie when you are hiding something. So what are you doing at the strippers if you have to lie about it? Mr.Happy (a yahoo member) said "He nailed those pole jokcies like a texas oil well." That's what goes through my head when men lie.
2006-12-14 07:36:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he doesn't quite understand your stance on the matter if the feels he has to lie about it. Either that or he's doing more than "tipping" the strippers when he's there. Maybe you could suggest going there together as a bonding experience. If he turns you down, then it might be time to get some clear answers as to what he's been doing behind your back.
2006-12-14 07:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you say you don't get mad if a guy goes to a strip club, the guy probably thinks you're mad anyway. He probably gets turned on quite a bit and doesn't want to tell you. Then again, there's been known to be some stuff happen once in a while at these places, if you know what I mean. Myself, I've never really gotten into the titty bars. I'd rather have my girl strip. That way I can't get kicked out for touching.
2006-12-14 15:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why some people lie when telling the truth would be the best honesty. Ive tried both ways in relationships and honesty is tough, but better as things are not a shock later when they come out.
Personally if he's lying then he must stop it otherwise what sort of future will you have together ?
2006-12-14 15:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok thats funny... why lie, because we wanna be the guy you want, you dont want a guy going to a strip club regardless if you say its ok or not... would you tell your boyfriend you went to a male strip preformance, i know most girls wouldn't... cause you know the next step, picturing that other person during sex, its just wrong and bad, so to make you think we are still that guy you met way back when then ya we'll lie, but not cause we are hidding anything, just cause we dont wanna have that going thru your head... and if you actually having sex with stripper, ummm get checked for the HIV
2006-12-14 15:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men lie coz dey dnt wna hurt da womens feeling n men r complitely different 2 women trust me my mates a shemale
2006-12-14 15:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If we can't lie what fun can we have? Don't be so heartless at least allow us our lies. Geez. Take everything from us why don't you?
2006-12-14 15:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋