2006-12-14 07:32:48 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, find out if he's gay or bi.
If he's gay, leave - what else can be done?
If he's bi, then you two need to discuss things and you need to see if you are willing to accept this part of his personality.
It's not impossible (and not "gross", no matter what the bigots on here tell you) for this to work if you love one another.
My ex of four years was bi, and we were very open about it. If he liked someone, then that person had to have my approval before they could do anything (it was rare that it ever even came up, honestly - maybe twice, if that).
I allowed him to have his male liasons because - obviously - that wasn't something I could give to him. However, had I preferred he didn't and was only monogamous to me, he was willing to do so. You do NOT want your man cheating on you - with men or women! These are all things the two of you need to discuss.
2006-12-14 07:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3 some
2006-12-14 07:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read my answer to the end people you will find out something interesting about this guy!!!!
As much as it will hurt you (that is if you are in Love with this man and you are a straight gal) You have to move on. There are so many fish in the sea. You will find the one that is right for you. This is a very hard question to answer not knowing your age or how long you have been dating. What your religious and moral beliefs are. This man can only bring you hurt in your life. Even if he were to have slept with another woman while you were dating he has still betrayed your trust in him. If your relationship is something that you want more than anything in the world and you THINK you can get over him being with another man you must seek counseling. It will eat away at you for many years. If this were an easy question I'd say kick the FAG to the curb. But it is your heart that is in turmoil and there is no easy answer. You have to do what is deep in your heart and best for YOU!!! I wish I had read your profile and answers and questions before you took up my time to answer your question. First people check him out then you will find out why his gay partner left him
2006-12-14 07:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by crazynuns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Bi....does that bother you.???....were you in an "exclusive relationship".???
If the answer to those questions is no, then you should do nothing differently (other than make sure you are using protection)......
On the bright side, this opens up a whole new realm of possibilities if that is of interest to you....
2006-12-14 07:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY
I would tell this person that you cherish and value your body and you wish he had have told you the truth before you got emotionally envolved with him about his secret sexuallity and you can no longer see him.
Unless you can accept his lifestyle then deal with it and move on with your relationship but I would ask him to make a choice of what way he wants to go sexually out of respect for all parties. if he says both ways then the choice is yours to ask yourself what kind of relationship you can accept and handle emotionally, and sexually
2006-12-14 07:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on whether or not you are okay with going out with a bisexual man. Was he cheating on you with a man? Because that's a different story ...
2006-12-14 07:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with the man he is sleeping with and then ask him how he feels about that.
2006-12-14 07:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You won't be able to stop him doing this, so you need to ask yourself if you are happy to persue a relationship with someone who is unwilling to be faithful.
If you are, then carry on as before.
If not, then you have to end it.
I hope you find happiness - and hopefully with someone who treats you with respect.
I will not make the same mistake twice - I will only be with someone who wants me completely, and is totally faithful.
2006-12-14 07:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a friend told you, wait and see if your boyfriend will tell you. If he doesn't in 3 days, tell him you found out and break up with him.
2006-12-14 07:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him alone and get tested to make sure you dont have anything the best thing is to just walk away from the situation and except it and him for what it is
2006-12-14 07:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by ashley p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋