this guy has been chasing me for years.even when i was in a serious relationship with my ex.
i ended my relationship with my ex 8 months ago.i was with him for 6 years,engaged and we had our own place.my ex has moved away.
i have met up with this guy a few times.he is still chasing me.we have only kissed despite him wanting to take things further sexually.i have stayed at his place a few times.i have been abit of a tease!lol
when i was with him last he asked about my ex.he knew him but they wasnt friends.
after we meet,i dont hear from him for a while.i end up chasing him then i eventually give up cause i dont hear from him.then,he comes back and the whole chase things starts again!
whats going on???
i really really like him.
he says he likes me too and is always complimenting me.he makes me feel really special.he always wants to be with me when we are together
should i just "come clean" to him with my feelings?at least ill know one way or another!!
2006-12-14 07:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem to be seriously confused about what's going on, not only with this guy but also in your own head.
You have to sit yourself down and sort yourself out, Your previous relationship was quite serious and obviously did not work out for you (sorry to hear, it must have been difficult).
You might be used to being a part of a couple with stability and security, two things which the guy you mentioned just seem to be on and off chasing you is NOT. If you want to be sure, just go on a couple of normal dates, movie, restaurant, coffee shop. do not stay over at his place and do not rush into anything sexual. Just get to know each other at a steady pace. You will know if the guy is just playing you because he is bored or immature, so don't waste your time, you are obviously capable of having and maintaining a serious relationship. Take your time to get your life in order.
Good Luck,
Irene
2006-12-14 07:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is just messing you about i mean coming and going as he pleases? No way love. Of course he will complement you all of the time but i bet he wants something in return. I say open your eye's love. You can do better than him. If you really think in your heart that he is serious then go for it but if not tell him where to go. If he wanted to be with you then he would be doing the running not you? Follow your heart.x
2006-12-14 07:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Julie M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go to bed with him, chances are he'll leave you alone after that
2006-12-14 07:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it before u wont have the chance to knoe wat wouldve happen if u guys were together GO FOR IT
2006-12-14 07:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by vLiiCiiOuS&YoUnG oRiiGiiNaL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋