I live in California and we want our friend to be the officiant at our wedding. How do we get her to be a Justice of the Peace for a day?
2006-12-14 07:22:58 · 10 answers · asked by veggi_chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Your friend can become ordained at http://www.ulc.net . After she is ordained she can officiate ANY ceremony.
2006-12-14 07:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. Will you have trouble sleeping at night not saying anything to your friends? If so, then say something. They may not want to hear it, but as a good and caring friend, it's your duty to bring it on once and only once. You've done your job and they can take it or leave it since they are adults and must be responsible for their decisions. I agree with you that this isn't really about the number of years a relationship's been before committing to marriage. I was with my ex for 5-6ys before we got engaged and broke up. For us, there were reasons why it took that long (we were in our early 20s, and really not suited at all for one another). Right now, I've been with the most wonderful guy on earth and it's only been 6 months. BUT we've had the talks about finances, children, religion, our basic moral values, what we want of life. I know many states require that couples go through pre marriage classes to make sure all these hot topics have been talked through. Maybe you can suggest they do that? It may save their relationship if you are having iffy feelings about it...
2016-05-24 04:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The back of Rolling Stone magazine has a form you can fill out and send in. Anyone can do it. My wife and I were married by a friend and a good friend of the family had her brother do the ceremony for she and her husband. Might want to check the local laws. We did this in Washington state.
2006-12-14 07:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Evolving 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how important it is to have her there and the meaning behind her marrying you two. Let her know you want her to be part of your special day besides just being a guest.
2006-12-14 08:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may find it easier to find some way to use two people to officiate. Your friend could work with a judge.
2006-12-14 07:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your friend can become an ordained minister online. Do a Yahoo search....it's pretty easy. My stepmom is one.
2006-12-14 08:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I thought you were talking a 3 way marriage.
2006-12-14 07:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by pedohunter1488 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
buy her a plane or bus ticket there and tell her it's paid for.
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2006-12-14 07:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I have a GREAt idea................
you ask her.
2006-12-14 11:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by carlee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋