My boyfriend and I are living together. When he leaves in the morning to go to work, he says, "Gotta go to work....LUV YA!"
Luv ya seems so buddy-buddy to me. I use to say it to my best friends in high school! Does he really love me or is he hiding the fact that he doesn't by changing the words around?
2006-12-14 07:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by Abby C 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weird thing is....I've heard him say "I love you" before. Why has it turned into Luv Ya?
2006-12-14 07:28:11 · update #1
Am I just crazy?
2006-12-14 10:24:47 · update #2
i think you are looking way too much in to it. i ould be happy that he says when he leaves at least he makes a effort. if you dont like it talk to him and say you feel horrible and would pefer him to say love. i think he does it in a harmless way and it sounds like you have got a good man so keep hold of him
2006-12-14 07:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubts about whether or not your bf loves you, please read on and learn :)
You most likely will/have fall(en) into the crush/infatuation trap, and you will not know how the person you want/are with truly feels for you since you two seem to be "strangers" to each other (read on to understand), so here is my advice for standards you need to know for when you have/are seeking to be in a relationship and learning the difference between LOVE and LUST. Knowing this will give you a checklist for your current or future gf/bf so you can know if she/he truly loves you and is right for you in every way, physically, and emotionally. Here's my tips for a prosperous relationship:
#1 Know yourself. Know your personality, what types of people will jive well with you and your habits, know your limits, know your strengths, and weaknesses. Once you know yourself, then and only then can you love another.
#2 Never judge a person by appearance. Personality far exceeds how a person may look. If I was judged that way I would never have gotten my soulmate because, yes, I am overweight. Never try to match a person up to your expectations and put them on a pedestal, hoping they will be exactly what you want. People are all different and you must learn to love a person for who they are, not what you wish they were.
#3 Everytime I hear the saying "opposites attract" I cringe because that couldn't be any farther from the truth. For people to be in a relationship with you, both of you should be totally insync with each other on most levels, sure we're not all the same, but the person you love should be your best friend. Yes you heard me say it, BEST FRIEND, as in someone you can trust completely, talk to about ANYTHING and everything, RELY upon, and share common interests. Someone who will always be there for you and accept you no matter what circumstances occur, good, bad, or indifferent. You should also know everything about that person's life, and understand their personality, flaws, good traits, ect. Remember, communication, communication, communication! Know your partner!
#4 All of this takes a lot of TIME to create, a lot of talking and getting to know the person before leaping on them, making out, having sex, ect. This is why most people FAIL at relationships, because they are total strangers trying to make up for a lifetime of not knowing the person they are with, therefore there is no base for trust and sex becomes a temporary mechanism to make people think they have something together, when in reality, they don't. Hence, friendship 1st is absolutely crucial.
I speak from personal experience because I am in a loving relationship that is all of those things and more.
2006-12-14 07:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex use to assert that I luv ya crap...i assumed in case you incredibly advise it, make an effort to assert it the right way. it would desire to be wonderful for a minute, yet whilst he stated it all the time, it have been given so stressful.
2016-10-05 07:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he is just in a rush and isn't really thinking about what he's saying. At least he is taking the effort to say something to you before he leaves.
2006-12-14 10:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by DimensionalStryder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding the fact that he does not have a firm grip on the intricacies of the English language.
2006-12-14 07:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love doesn`t need to be expressed with words it is a feeling of heart . so feel it from ur heart u will came to know wheather he loves u or not. good luck
2006-12-14 07:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by wE r MuScUlAr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does love you thats just the way most guys are he just wants to get to work
2006-12-14 07:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by stonegray25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE COULD JUST BE TOO LAZY TO TAKE TIME TO PRONOUNCE
2006-12-14 07:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by SweetiePie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should say " i love you sooo much" and see what he says
2006-12-14 07:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love you
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2006-12-14 07:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋