2006-12-14 07:02:35 · 26 answers · asked by Abbie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you know him, he knows you, you are both comfortable with the idea, and when you both can trust, communicate and talk to eachother.
2006-12-14 07:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
One month is way too soon. I've been with mine for 2 years and we're still virgins.
You most likely have a crush/ are infatuated, and you will not know how this person truly feels for you since you two seem to be "strangers" to each other (read on to understand), so here is my advice for standards you need to know for when you have a relationship and learning the difference between LOVE and LUST. Knowing this will give you a checklist for your current or future bf so you can know if he truly loves you and is right for you in every way, physically, and emotionally. Here's my tips for a prosperous relationship:
Everytime I hear the saying "opposites attract" I cringe because that couldn't be any farther from the truth. For people to be in a relationship with you, both of you should be totally insync with each other on most levels, sure we're not all the same, but the person you love should be your best friend. Yes you heard me say it, BEST FRIEND, as in someone you can trust completely, talk to about ANYTHING and everything, RELY upon, and share common interests. Someone who will always be there for you and accept you no matter what circumstances occur, good, bad, or indifferent. You should also know everything about that person's life, and understand their personality, flaws, good traits, ect. Remember, communication, communication, communication! Know your partner!
All of this takes a lot of TIME to create, a lot of talking and getting to know the person before leaping on them, making out, having sex, ect. This is why most people FAIL at relationships, because they are total strangers trying to make up for a lifetime of not knowing the person they are with, therefore there is no base for trust. Hence, friendship 1st is absolutely crucial.
I speak from personal experience because I am in a loving relationship that is all of those things and more.
2006-12-14 15:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, exactly how old are you because it sounds like you're young, especially since you waited a month. I'm not going to try and tell you to wait until marriage because most people could care less. I will tell you that you'll know when it's the right time. Don't get pressure into it or anything like that. Make sure you're ready for it because "IT" can have a lot of consequences that you may not be ready to face.
2006-12-14 15:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, There is no time limit on when you sleep with someone, you have to feel ready and not pressured. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have only been sleeping together for a couple of months. By the way how old are you, you don't sound very old. Hope this helps.
Luv ya Kimmy
2006-12-14 15:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Abbie honey if you have to ask then you are to young to even be thinking about it. 1 month you don't even know him. you don't know anything that's worth knowing in 1 months time. I'm a grown women 43 yrs old and proud. I have a 4 month rule and in that 4 months I get to know him and trust me 4 months is enough time to find out if they are full of it or not . because if your waiting to get to know him he will show his true colors before the 4 month especially if your not having sex . sex clouds your judgment and makes it harder to see the truth about someone. so wait until your Ready and then get some kind of rule of your own and respect yourself, trust me a real man or young man will really and truly respect you lol
2006-12-14 15:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do it when you want to do it. Not because you've been dating for a month or two or more.
My suggestion, wait until you get older or married before you sleep with someone.
Just remember to wear protection! You don't want to live the rest of your life with STD or AIDS.
2006-12-14 15:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A month isn't very long. Is he asking you to give in? If so, make him wait and see what happens. If he hangs in there and doesn't cheat around on you, he may be worthy.
2006-12-14 15:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Powerplay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends.....if u have strong feelings for him then yea. because if something goes wrong n u get pregnant then u know dat ya care about each otha so much that u know he'll b there 4 u. But if u doin it for your own pleasures den no. cuz somethin could go wrong n boom! u gotta baby
2006-12-14 15:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? If you must ask this question, you are not ready for sex. You couldn't even type sex, you referred to it as "IT". One month is a bit soon.
2006-12-14 15:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do it anytime soon, i think u should wait so that u guys get to know eachother on a mental level..
2006-12-14 15:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋