So my boyfriend has been having a really bad week and I really want to help him out and make him feel better. What are some good things to say to him that would do this?...what do guys like to hear when they are having a bad day or things arent' going there way??
2006-12-14 06:53:05 · 15 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your BF is anything like my husband, you won't be able to say anything that will make him feel better. Try doing something kind for him instead: make a nice dinner, rub his feet or his back after a long day, rent his favorite movie and sit with him in sweats, eating popcorn. Be there for him, so he knows at least one person's on his side. That will mean the world to him. Good luck--
2006-12-14 06:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want to be treated like babies. really, they won't admit it but their behavior confirms if. at least that's my experience. oh my goodness, and if they get sick, like catch a cold or get a sore throat it's like they are recovering from brain surgery or something like that. i swear men are such wimps. so what he had a bad day, that's fine. now he has a bad WeeK! oh, my what could be causing so much strife in this mans life? a whole week of having bad days. what could be next, is the poor thing going to start crying? boo hoo. tell him to take it like a man and quit is belly aching or do something about whatever is bothering him. he wants you to baby him, so if that's what you're into, go ahead, but be prepared that if it's comforting enough, the next time he has a bad day it'll be 10 times worse than the last time. might as well check him in to a nursing home now.
2006-12-14 15:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, why is he having a bad week. Did he do something, say something etc. If you're not sure tell him all the things YOU would like to hear yourself if you were having a bad week. Cook him his favorite comfort foods and tell him he's a great guy!
2006-12-14 15:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like to be babied..so baby him...Tell him that you are there for him..tell him a jokes between the two of you or an old memory to get things outta his mind..push him to think about something esle..and if that doesnt work ..then talk to him about what has been bothering him so he cna get it out and think of options to help him..make sure you say im here and i love you...(im not sure if u say that yet)
2006-12-14 14:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pamper him. men love to have attention. make him a nice meal. Conversation doesn't have to include specific things that refer to his bad day, quite the opposite, think of witty, positive things to talk about and change his mood.
2006-12-14 14:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so surprise him wearing something suuuuper hott and just attack him, out of nowhere. that will make any guy feel better no matter what, at least for a hott minute
:)
2006-12-14 14:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't like to hear anything just like to be left alone
2006-12-14 14:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you love him. Make his favourite food. Do things that tend to cheer him up.
2006-12-14 14:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by SPORTS GUY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"you'll get through it, things gonna get better"
or tell him you love him give him a sweet hug
do something he really likes, or you know, you can tell a compliment or something, give him self esteem and strength
2006-12-14 14:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...you're his girlfriend...every guy is different... you should know him well since he's your boyfriend
if you don't....then where is your relationship really going?
2006-12-14 14:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋