there is no perfect age to have a child. Anatomically speaking it is best to have a child when your body is #1 mature and #2 before you begin the early stages of menopause.
But, ideally.....a woman should have a child when SHE is emotionally and financially able to do so. it's truly a matter of when your heart feels the need to create something and watch it grow. It's when a woman feels the deep inner drive to nurture and care for another human being.
Only an individual woman can be the one to say when she is ready and when she is not to be a mom.
**However, unprotected sex can take that choice away from her and get her into a whole world that she was not ready for. Be careful when you have sex:For your health and for your future***
God Bless and Merry Christmas
2006-12-14 06:57:37
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answered by brookebjpl 3
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It doesn't matter what age you are as long as you are responsable enough to love and care for a child. You need to be financially ready to give up friday night clubbing and emotionally ready to stay up all night with a newborn hungry running a fever who only wants to breast feed. Age sumply doesn't matter when it comes to having a child, it's all about the personality. I kno women in there 40's having children and they are as irrsponsable as my 15 year old neice, want to drink and party living in a trailor feeding there children nothing but hot dogs and macaroni and cheese. I hvae a friend who got pregnant at 16 and honestly I feel shes a better mom then I might ever be. She gave up everything for her daughter, and never once complained about it. She finished high school with a baby, without the father, and without her parents. She's in college with a 4 year old. She works, pays bills, goes to classes, gets her homework done, and spends so much time teaching her daughter and playing with her and just giving her so much love. She is an angel. My hero! Age is a number, maturity is a factor!
2006-12-14 15:06:13
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answered by Camerons Mama07 3
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I don't think its a certain number age, I feel as if it all depends on the womans maturity, stabilty, in good financial standing and when she is with a man that will be in that child's life. Its really all about the woman and how good of a life she thinks she can give that child!
2006-12-14 14:52:39
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answered by yahoocraze 3
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I don't think there's one set age - everyone is different. I have one friend who is 20 and she's a great mother. I have other friends who are over 25 and they would make horrible parents. It all depends on where you are in life and your commitment to your child. But generally, I think you should be out of high school at the very least.
2006-12-14 14:56:47
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answered by chocolate-drop 5
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No age is a perfect age. It all depends on what your priorities are in life. If your career goals are # 1 then I say wait until you are 30. I had my kids young, so, I really can't say... My oldest daughter is 10 so I can relate to her more since she is only 16 years younger than me. It's your call, I do say that no age is the right age...
2006-12-14 14:54:45
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answered by agonynextacy 1
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I don't think there is a "prefect" age to have a child..I mean obviously not when she's a teenager or whatever...but I would say if I had to pin point an age I would say around 24-25 or so!! You have already graduated college and hopefully on your way to get married or starting your career!!
2006-12-14 14:52:17
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answered by MLP 2
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i think that all depends on the women...some are ready in there early 20s some should wait till there in there 30s...go over ur life and determine if u are ready for a child...they will change ur life....good luck 2 u
2006-12-15 00:49:10
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answered by rebelbabe611 1
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Their is no perfect age.When someone is ready financially,emotionally and is ready to settle down and devote their life to a child.Whenever the person is sure,its not easy but very rewarding.
2006-12-14 14:54:32
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answered by brina l 2
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I don't really know the answer to that but I do know it is best for the childs development to have your children at least 5 years apart
2006-12-14 14:50:55
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answered by Bombshell 3
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after 30, so that you can have a life before that
2006-12-14 19:34:53
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answered by jimbell 6
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