I beleive myself to be beautiful. . .very beautiful. . .I do not feel confident anymore that a man will ever truly love and accept me for me however. . . Actually I just had an experiance when the chemistry was off the charts amazing. . .and I thought we were still connecting into our date. . .but, then he started flirting with the bartender and I realized that even though we had the same heart and desires. . .There was just somthing superficially off to him. . .
Because we had an emotional connection that was amazing
Wouldn't that make anyone feel kinda "down" on themselves. .
The funny thing is I walked over and started talking to this bar tender and found out she thought he was awsome but, she was way more intersted in shooting a drink with me and even told me (in her drunkeness) that we might be able to do some great things as a "team" to this guy. . .
Mind you I really fell in love with this guy and was totally put out that he did that. . .
but. . ya know. .. hey. . .
2006-12-14 06:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd known this guy before this date. . .and actually started growing very attached to the factthat we both seemed pretty crazy about eachtother. . .
2006-12-14 06:49:34 · update #1
tell the guy how you feel....
2006-12-14 06:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by jairman2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush/ are infatuated, and you will not know how this person truly feels for you since you two seem to be "strangers" to each other (read on to understand), so here is my advice for standards you need to know for when you have a relationship. Knowing this will give you a checklist for your future bf so you can know if he truly loves you and is right for you. Here's my tips for a prosperous relationship:
Everytime I hear the saying "opposites attract" I cringe because that couldn't be any farther from the truth. For people to be in a relationship with you, both of you should be totally insync with each other on most levels, sure we're not all the same, but the person you love should be your best friend. Yes you heard me say it, BEST FRIEND, as in someone you can trust completely, talk to about ANYTHING and everything, RELY upon, and share common interests. Someone who will always be there for you and accept you no matter what circumstances occur, good, bad, or indifferent. You should also know everything about that person's life, and understand their personality, flaws, good traits, ect. Remember, communication, communication, communication! Know your partner!
All of this takes a lot of TIME to create, a lot of talking and getting to know the person before leaping on them, making out, having sex, ect. This is why most people FAIL at relationships, because they are total strangers trying to make up for a lifetime of not knowing the person they are with, therefore there is no base for trust. Hence, friendship 1st is absolutely crucial.
I speak from personal experience because I am in a loving relationship that is all of those things and more.
2006-12-14 14:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry..
Don't let it get you down..
At least you didn't waste a lot of time with him..
There are lots of really good guys out there..
The trick is cutting one out of the herd..
Women are beautiful , wonderful mysterious creatures..
Truly Gods gift to man...Our lover and Best Friend...
Find a mature man of substance, check his credit, do your
homework, what is his job, education, background, finances, car, house, prospects, potential....Don't settle for second best...
Any man would be lucky to have you...
2006-12-14 14:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player and a good one at that. It has happened to us all be glad you know now and know that you are beautiful and you will once again meet someone that you will have instant chemistry with but this time he will only have you on his mind
2006-12-14 14:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your losing it lady! I'm going to be honest with you here...You seem to fall pretty fast for guys! I know this is not what you want to hear and I don't REALLY know you, but from what I've read and just from my own past...your just falling way too fast for your own good for these guys!
2006-12-15 11:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that happened to you. You sound too sensible to fall in to a three-way with people you hardly know. You deserve better!
2006-12-14 14:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course
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2006-12-14 14:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋