I just broke up with my girlfriend that i was with for over 3 years. We had a pretty serious relationship, but there were too many problems...arguments and frustations. I finally decided to do something about it and end a relationship i thought would innebitably end.
The same week i broke up with her, my cousin called and i went to her house...she has this beautiful roomate that has been attracted to me for years. She recently broke up with her man about 3 months ago. We talked and ended up spending the night together...i have been talking to her a lot and spending a lot of time with her.
Take into concideration that i just broke up with my GF about 2 weeks ago! I dont feel that this is a rebound thing because i have known her for years and she is my cousins best friend...i see all the things that were missing in my gf in her...i like her a lot, and it's kinda like it was meant to be.
2006-12-14 06:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by sublimeguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Ask your question there. It's a great forum for advice. Yahoo answers seems to go way too fast for people who want thoroughly explained love advice.
2006-12-14 06:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby_Bomberman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off it may not feel like a rebound thing to you now because it's new and exciting. Everything is always great in the beginning because everyone puts their best foot forward. Being with this new girl gives you a chance to move on without the lonely feeling of a breakup. However, feelings are not like a water faucet, you cannot turn them on and off when you want to. I said that to say this, I understand your reasoning for moving on, but you didn't even give the relationship a chance to get cold in it's grave. Take it easy and slow with this new girl. Don't let her get all caught up in you, then you later discover that you still have feelings for the old girlfriend.
Your new found friendship is certainly going to be a hard pill for your ex to swallow. So prepare yourself for some tears and drama from her. I guess letting her down easy is out the window now, but I can assure you that your moving on so quickly is probably going to hurt her more than the actual break-up, because she's going to feel you were already seeing this other girl and that's why you broke up with her.
Just be prepared, this won't be easy and make sure this is what you want.
2006-12-14 14:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Slice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few years ago i dated this guy for a year. he dissappeared. just like that. i started hanging out with his friend because he lived down the street from me. 6 weeks later..i moved in with him....1 month after that i was pregnant. and now we are married.
so there is never such a thing as too soon. you will never know until you take action. you are done with your relationship. that doesn't make you a bad person. if your ex feels bad, she will have to come to terms with it at some point. just don't parade the new girl around your ex. that's a little rude.
2006-12-14 14:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u might be going into this a little too fast..u say u feel and do things with this new girl that u were missing out on with ur ex..so could that be a good thing? i mean the new girl probably doesn't deserve for u to be with her just so u can get over ur ex...even though u think ur not doing that (rebounding) maybe deep down inside u r...two weeks is a short time to get over someone u were with for 3yrs. just take it slow...u don't want another relationship down the drain...
2006-12-14 14:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by prchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I remember I got dumped by a girl who I dated faithful for 2 months(she says 3). I then went out to the mall and got a new the same day... simple as that.....
2006-12-14 14:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love...
Don't let your cousins room-mate get away from you...
2006-12-14 14:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and then that it is.. meant to be relax and enjoy! hopefully u 2 will be married by next year.
2006-12-14 15:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not too soon or wrong. We meet the right people when we meet them, that's all.
2006-12-14 14:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out.
2006-12-14 14:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Reach for the stars* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋