well theres this girl in bangalore in really like.. i had a crush on this girl for 5 years when i was in school and then i moved out and continued education in pune and now we got back talking and i really have started developing feelings for her ... we exchange a lot of mails when we are work daily and when we talk we end up talking for quite sometime... its a long distance realtionship ... i wanna know is there anyway i can get with her into a relationship without screwing up the things that are there between us now... i really want to be with this girl !!
2006-12-14 06:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by neorox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u just gotta go with the flow man. if she feels the same way you do, or sees potential, then everything will just fall in place. if you try to go out of your way to make this happen, it might just make things take a turn for the worse~
2006-12-14 06:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by duthedu818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Just ask her,"Is there anyway i can get with you into a relationship without screwing up the things that are there between us now." But don't tell her that you REALLY want her because that will make you look desperate and it might scare her a little bit. Go get her, Tiger!
If she happens to say "no" then continue to treat her like a friend and move on with your life.
2006-12-14 14:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jo K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has probably been dying for you to ask her about getting more serious for ages...guys are usually the slow ones.
You should confront her and tell her how you feel in a nice way..if the answer is no ...you need to move on and risk losing what you have...you need to be brave about this because even if you like her if she's not prepared to settle down with you you need to get over it and find someone who does appreciate you.
2006-12-14 18:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Babloo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
you like her and have for quite sometime
the only way up is to jump on the plane
take a risk
2006-12-14 14:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all is goin well .... ur relation is perfect as far as a platonic friendship is concern ........how do u know she is into u may be shes jst tryin to be a good friend .......n if its more n she too feels the same abt u .... n not in any relation wt any one else.... shes all urs.....say whats in u dont keep it botteled up
2006-12-14 14:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by psycadelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a short distance, one of you need to move .
2006-12-14 14:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she doesn't screw you, you're gonna kill her entire family. say it in a sinister voice.
2006-12-14 14:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by mikey g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and talk to her...
dats the only way buddy...
2006-12-15 01:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by AB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything to be with
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2006-12-14 14:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋