Would a man rather have a woman "show up" at the door of his apartment already wearing lingerie (descretly of course), OR should she change into the lingerie after she gets to his place???
2006-12-14 06:13:56 · 30 answers · asked by wwjd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flunk the lingerie, in the buff is how it should be done
2006-12-14 06:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one. I know many men like to watch a women get dressed into the sexy lingerie.
Overall, here is my recommendation. I wear a sexy outfit over to his place. or if we are going out first I wear it under my clothes.
Then I can show him glimpses during the evening.
If you are looking to surprise him at home. Wear it to his place under a coat and let him see you in it when he answers the door. I Like the full look of a garter belt, stockings, pantied and a corsette with a sexy pair of heels.
Good luck. I think he will be happy either way though. he is a guy after all and will love to see you in lingerie.
2006-12-14 06:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by psionne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are pluses to both, depending on the woman. Imagine the fun a woman could have changing in front of her guy. Done well, with attitude, that would be a big turn on.
But I think what's important is the message that lingerie gives. You don't even have to wear it to deliver the message.
2006-12-14 06:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the Lingerie, get a full lenght coat down to your knee's
and some high heels and nothing under the coat. That all U need !
2006-12-14 06:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wear it there, and follow the suggestion of dropping the coat to reveal what is being worn. Its every man's fantasy to have his gal show up like that. Changing takes away the surprise a bit.
2006-12-14 06:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the first one is excellent, however I'd prefer that she was comfortable during the day and come play time, she could step into the bathroom, changes, and come whisking into the bedroom in her sexy clothing. Your comfort out ways my need to have you in sexy lingerie all the time, however, if you can do it, it never hurts.
2006-12-14 06:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not do both(not at the same time, of course). Show up in it once, don't immediately let him know you have it on, and just subtley hint to him what you are hiding. Then, next time, just show up with it in your purse. He would probably be devistated that you don't have it on. Then later, go change without him knowing, and just enter with it on, and a look that tells him that it is time...Good luck.
2006-12-14 09:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Society Dweller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would show up in it if I were you! Then make him wait like 2 hours to see what you're wearing, or flaunt it around and don't let him touch you for a bit. That will make him even more crazy to get up in that!!!
2006-12-14 06:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, put on your sexy lingerie, top it with a trench coat/winter coat. Have him answer the door and as soon as you walk in, TAKE IT OFF. :) Cheers!
2006-12-14 06:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been browsing the web more than two hours today searching for answer to the same question, yet I haven't found any interesting debate like this. it's pretty worth enough for me.
2016-08-23 12:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ware it over there because... if you go to change into it, the lingerie might not make it on other wise. have a good day.
2006-12-14 06:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋