I was just lucky enough to spend time with a man who was absolutly everything I could ever want in a man. . . .But, I don't really feel like I am good enough. . .in any way. . .not for this man. . .
Does anyone ever feel that way? How can I stop feeling this way?
Most importantly: If you do not like yourself. . .how can you ever expect anyone else to?
I just don't know. . . was really falling in love. . .and now. . .
I just don't know.
2006-12-14 06:06:03 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey you, YOUR worthy of anyman and all of his time! If your feeling like your not good enough, well unfortunately thats something only you can overcome.
IF he is truly this "absolutely everything" you could ever want in a man, then he will be able to help you overcome this feeling of not feeling up to the challenge...
Good luck!
2006-12-15 03:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....good timing with this question. I just went through something like this with a girl I was seeing. We really liked each other but she thought that I was too good for her (which was not true at all). She had some issues with not liking herself and some traits that she had that I thought were cute!
I'm sure this guy is great but he's not perfect just like no one is. It was so hard to see this girl push me away knowing that I was not the "perfect" man she thought I was. I was just good at hiding my own insecurities.
You should feel confident in yourself because we all have qualities that make us special, even if we don't think so ourselves. Don't push him away because you feel you aren't good enough. You should stay with him, and if he pushes you away, then he just proved he's not good enough for you.
2006-12-14 14:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by JDH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, I understand where you are coming from, i'm not a man obvisouly but the experience has been with me. Sometimes when I am with my boyfriend I feel as though I do not deserve him, he isn't perfect but near it! You have to build your confidence, and inner self, I am still working on this myself. The best thing for you to do is gain confidence and communicate how you feel. You will eventually fall in love and know the feeling. Do not rush into this feeling, that is not a feeling then, its a thought. have patience and make sure the guy you are with treats you right. then you will know that his tru actions and yours is true love. I hope this helped . God Bless.
2006-12-14 14:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spent the time with him, he obviously thought there was something to you that he liked enough to stay. Liking yourself, is a hard thing to do, most people can find something they just wish wasn;t so.. Try talking to him (if you can) and seeing where he stands, you may find out your stress is over nothing. As for yourself, concentrate on the positive and best of luck..
2006-12-14 14:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by dadknows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad reality is that most women have low self esteem.
One of the ways to help this is to look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself that you are beautiful. You need to inbed it in your head.
I have seen your 360 page and you indeed are a beautiful woman and you deserve a prince not a frog.
Let yourself go and fall in love.
2006-12-14 14:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and you will be fine,I'm in the same boat,I don't think I'm good looking enough for the women in my town.I do get a few stares from really pretty girls,I mean the kind of stares like their interested in you,I wish I knew what to do about that. I wish you luck.
2006-12-14 14:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i dont. But youre lucky if you can marry up. To to be good at loving someone else you need to love yourself( not physically, emotionally). Don't worry this guy has his own sets of problem...he is human. The best is too be equally yoaked in a marriage. Anyways follow your heart.
2006-12-14 14:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself for whatever reason you do. If you are not good enough for him do you think he would be hanging out with you. You better start to learn to like yourself b/c either way you are not going to change so why go though life miserable when you could be happy.
good luck
2006-12-14 14:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by joe d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was everything you could ever want I dont see the problem. You dont think you are good enough? Do you not feel you deserve the best? Dont be afriad, I had girl do that to me once and she still tries to get back with me to this day.
2006-12-14 14:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by garrett 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find yourself, you need to except who you are and what you have, in order to ever be content with yourself, Live in the now, forgive yourself and other whom you feel have done you any injustice, Let him be the judge of that , you may be everything he has been looking for in his life, He who fears suffers from his own fears
2006-12-14 14:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋