We met via internet 3 months ago, we have been chating and exchanging photos. He lives in another country 3 hours trip by flight from where I live . After one month he started calling me every evening to say hallo and ask about my day and I´ve been calling him too.Since then we stopped communicating through internet, only phone calls.Now he wants to meet me for the first time on x-mas week.This makes me very nervous.
2006-12-14 06:05:57 · 14 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Christmas is kind of stressful as it is.
Maybe over New Years, instead?
As far as meeting him goes - you have to look at it that you already know each other very well. You may have initial awkwardness, but it'll quickly pass.
2006-12-14 06:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by blue.green_eyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its natural to be nervous the first time you actually meet your first real date, whether it be a result of the Internet, or if you meet someone out in the real world.
You don't have the corner on nervousness, when it comes to a situation like this.
I don't think you would act any differently with him meeting in this way, then if you would otherwise.
I am not quite sure what you are looking for here , unless its reassurance.
2006-12-14 14:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should make you very nervous. You really do not know anything about him. He may have made up everything he told you. He could have been in prison in the past for rape. How do you know? Tell him not to come. But if he is on his way....Do not let him come to your house. Meet him in a public place (the airport?) only and don't go anywhere alone with him. Stay in restaurants, and other public places. Get him a hotel room and don't go there with him. Get to know him before you end up a statistic.
2006-12-14 14:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure u look and feel as good as u can get. spend money on yourself. buy something new. go out with your best friend and laugh yourself to death. if u r an organized person think how r u gonna say hi, if u r gonna kiss him, find an original way to welcome him. make sure u will have time and something nice to do toghether with him so he will be happy he decided to spend x mas with u. dont think too much about u being nervous right before u meet him. think how happy u r 2 finally get to do this. :)good luck !! p.s. be yourself!! most important
2006-12-14 14:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have someone else with you and meet in a public place because you need an out in case something goes wrong; you're disappointed; etc. Once you feel comfortable with him then you can take it elsewhere more private, alone.
2006-12-14 14:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nervous because you like him and want to make a good impression. Don't be.
You have already made a good one if he is calling you that often. Just be like you where all this time.
2006-12-14 14:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet with a friend, or if you dont want to take a friend, tell a number of people where you are going and take a mobile. go to somewhere where it is busy i knoe you think you know this person, but just be safe just in case!
2006-12-14 14:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, be careful, you just don't know what you'll get. Don't have high expectations, it's better have both feet on earth, 'cause you can get a surprise. Take care and good luck.
2006-12-14 14:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by candywhiteandrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure someone knows where you will be and keep in touch with that person just in case. YOu never know
2006-12-14 14:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax & be yourself do not try to copy someone to impress him and everything will fall right in place.
2006-12-14 14:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by tarun.shrm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋