2006-12-14 05:59:57 · 29 answers · asked by Michelle 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Its called stress. I'm raising 3 kids on my own and sometimes you need to take the time to relax. Ask your parents to watch them for a day and go chill, go out to eat with freinds, to a movie or just soak in a hot tub.
2006-12-14 06:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Whadafuc? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im not an expert on this, but maybe you are taking too much care of your children. You should be more "lay-back" with your kids. Sometimes when they have to go to bed, do their homework, take a shower they just dont want to you have to tell them to go do what they have to do many times. And that may make you dizzy and thats why your head hurts. So when you get this headaches just try to relax. Remember never shout at little kids,sometimes this makes it worse and they think it is funny.
2006-12-14 06:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most IMPORTANT OF ALL is do not try to be a PERFECT MOTHER. THERE IS NO SUCH THING just do the best you can.
It could be for a lot of reasons. We all go through different circumstances.
You need to separate yourself from them. Being around them no matter how much we love them can take a toll on any good mother.
What I would do when mine were younger was to sit them down and tell them that mommy needs some time alone, and I will be in my room for an hour, in that time they are to watch TV or play games and no one can go outside, being it is for their safety, of course with the ending words of how much I love them and want to always be a loving mom and in order to do that I need to re fill.
And always with the main warning of no fighting or there'll be hell to pay and there usually was. And also only very important issues such as someone got hurt can they knock on my bedroom door.
Do you have a mothering chapter in your area; I joined one once and it was nice. We had to give reporst as in book reports about certain topics, we talked about our issues.
Another good thing to do is to trade kid watching duties with a neighbor so you can do the bills and all of that with out kids hanging on you and it gives them a chance to socialize.
2006-12-14 06:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll have an astigmatism.. that does no longer continuously want glasses to ideal. Are you unconsciously frowning at the same time as you study and drawing the muscle mass on your foreheadin blend? you'll take a check out some X1 glasses on the drug keep and see if that eases the flaws. My mom used to point risky lights furnishings, or sunlight hours on a e book, or only being wiped out provides you with a headache at the same time as reading too.
2016-10-18 07:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are needing set limits and boundaries from you. Have them to earn privileges and other rewards. Making a good and bad behavior chart and having them to put gold stars for good behavior and other colored stars for misconduct will help. Same thing goes for having them to do chores to help around the house.They earn a little treat for doing chores. Make a deal with them that if they can all earn as many gold stars as possible, there will be a trip to the library, park, or maybe a movie rental.
2006-12-14 06:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you don't penalize them when they get on your nerves.when they do make you get a headache get them to rub the back of your neck. this is tension here that if it is relieved then your headache will go away.they will then say ow . maybe I shouldnt give mother a headache I will have to rub her neck and they will be more carefull not to bug you and do things that bother you.my children rubbed my neck.they were sweet kids.or get a hand held massager to rub your neck with. takeing valerian root herb is also good to relax you. take 3 tablets of it before bedtime.and a good b vitamin complex is good for stress. Hope Y'all have a very Merry Christmas.
2006-12-14 06:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to give your kids boundaries. If they walk all over you you will always fight with them. Try showing them the respect and expect it in return. If they know you will not budge from the rules they will start to follow them. Stick to them and your parenting life will be a little easier. Stay Consistent Good Luck
2006-12-14 06:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by daisygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow - sorry to hear that. Maybe some parenting or coping strategies would help? I'd check in with a counselor. When you have headaches, you're probably not being the mom you want to be. Get some help for you &/or your family.
2006-12-14 06:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by the truth 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, they have a mind of their own, don't they.
But on the other hand, they can be a bundle of joy also.
You will get through the tough time and enjoy seeing they brough up to be the rightful people. Assuming you know how to be a good parent and teach them the right values.
2006-12-14 06:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set clear guidelines and make sure they stay within them - kids need and want parameters set for them. Once you establish the 'rules' - remember this:
Rules and
Regulations without a
Relationship results in
Rebellion!
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-14 06:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋