we started out talking and we were always open and honest with eachother.we went for walks,night rides to watch the sun sets and watch night lightening. we spent lots of time alone listening to music.we also took a vaction to the mountains of tenn.. things just went down hill since than. we were together about 9 months before it all started falling apart. we fell in love and now it seems that she has fallen out of love with me. she just hasn't said that me in thoughs exact words.everthing that we use to do or that I would do seem to bother her in some way are another.we are not as close as we use to be. we have been together for 18 months now.there is more space between than she has asked me to give. what is wrong with this relationship!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 05:59:19 · 15 answers · asked by David L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you guys need to take a break and see if you guys will miss each other and if you guys do then get back together but you dont miss each other then stay broken up and move on.
2006-12-14 06:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about u try talking to her about it? Can u tell her how u feel? The other things that u need in a relationship is talking to one another about ur feelings, maybe u guys went down hill bc it's been so long,usually when a couple is together for so long they start out lovely but then they start to lose that together all the time thing some people just need their space. But u might want to ask her what has happened and just tell her how u feel. It would probably help if u at least came up with a talk about it and maybe she will own up to u and tell u her point of view and how she feels. U also have to remember to speak up! If it don't go right then it was just not meant to be and u might need to start all over but it won't be the end of the world u got plenty of opertunities!
2006-12-14 06:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by Burgplay07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you are together for a while you dont do things still like you did in the begianing i mean you do but not as much. Now she probably just feels that you have each other no need to be with you 24/7 and she feels its ok to do things on her own like go and have space it dont always mean she is cheating if you feel too much space. She just feels comfortable with you thats all. But if she stops coming around and calling then you will know!
2006-12-14 06:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by hollybear52602 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry that you have to go through this because it is NOT fun in anyway shape or form-- but i do believe that your relationship with her is no longer.... that doesn't mean she's cheating on you, but that doesn't mean she's not cheating on you either-- i think it would be the best if YOU would call it quits before she takes you for what i call a "drag along" and just makes you feel terrible everyday--- i guarantee that there is someone out there that wouldn't dream of doing something like this to you-- so go find her, and give your current girl go.... it's not healthy to be stuck in the type of relationship you have right now
2006-12-14 06:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a likely reason is that she has found someone else. she's probably trying to make the relationship awkward so that you'll break up with her or bring it up. some people do this because it's easier for them. i bet you she's probably acting a little weird and secretive. if that is the case it might be she's hiding the fact that she's talking to someone else or even seeing someone else (not necessarily romantically yet).
either way, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. be strong , move on, you will find someone better and be happy you did.
2006-12-14 06:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks.. but you can never tell for certain tho if she's cheating on you. girls are usually the creatures of loyalty but trust me, i've met enough who aren't, but still this doesnt mean anything related to your problems. you can probably do something to improve the status of the relationship though, by effective communication, with diplomacy and much consideration. be patient and who knows, she may come around soon. good luck!
2006-12-14 06:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by smokey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just be taken a step back and seeing how she feels about you and her for ever. Just let her be, and meybe things will get better.../ and dont ask her whats wrong with her a million times a day
2006-12-14 06:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like it has run its course. This does happen, but this is how we find out who we truely want to be with. You should have a nice heart to heart with her and see just how she is feeling and what she is thinking.
2006-12-14 06:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space.Give her time to miss you.Maybe she's tired of the same old routine.Try something new.Talk it out.Face her.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 06:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by camy_lavy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a possibility that she is or she could just be getting tired of doing the same things maybe she just wants her space!! or she can be seeing somebody else you should ask her whats upâ¥
2006-12-14 06:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by nExT tOp MoDeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋