About four weeks ago I told a guy I like how I felt, since then we've hung out a couple of times, and the last time I saw him we kissed etc. It's been hard to make time to see eachother because of different work schedules and we are both in university and just wrote finals. All that is done now, so really there is boundless time for romance over the Christmas break, but now I am wondering if he is even really interested in me. He said that he was, he kissed me, but I've been doing all the talking. I'm still too scared to actually call him... but we've talked over msn, and it's usually me who initiates the conversation. He knows I'm done my exams now and have free time, so why doesn't he try to hook up? I'm dying to, is his silence and indication that he doesn't want to pursue this? Or am I just being impatient and paranoid, I mean i did just write my last exam yesterday, and him the day before. We had that final together, and he signalled me to msg him as his mom came to grab him.?
2006-12-14 05:51:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably feeling the same way. Ladies, we're just as nervous as you are. This is a natural feeling for all human.
If you really like him, just make the first move and good luck.
2006-12-14 06:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice that I can give you is to give it some time. If the guy is still interested you will know it. If you see that you are the only one putting any effort in, don't read anymore into it and leave it alone. Trying to make something out of nothing will only make it worse on you and could affect your vacation and not in a romantic way. Good luck hope this helps.
2006-12-14 14:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by *♥Tarita♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, you need to take a step BACK! holidays are busy times--people spend it with their families and are probably overwhelmed with everything going on at home. I know I'm super busy at holiday time when I go home, and don't have a lot of time for anyone else. You should take a break and force him to initiate. distract yourself for a couple days/week and wait for him to contact you. I bet you're both driving eachother nuts, but you just beat him to the punch every time by contacting him!
2006-12-14 13:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets try this: dont be the first to write or call or anything for that matter n see if he calls u wait about 2-3days
if nothing happens call him up ask if he's been busying if doesnt ask about u or doesnt sounds like he wants 2 talk then finish convo n forget about the jerk
dont stress plus there are so many other guys : TRUST ME
2006-12-14 13:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by axlrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your obsessing over him. That's too much too early so you're probably pushing him away. He doesn't need to try to "hook up" since he already knows that you are pursuing him, and will be the one chasing him. He probably does like you, but you guys are just starting to date, so there's no reason to expect him to want to be around all the time. Just sit back and relax.
2006-12-14 14:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You step to the plate !!Quit acting childish,females get what they want .If you want that man.claim him.He's yours,don't seem so desperate.While you were taking your exams he was probably trying to exam in you! Try not to be so talkative,take it easy,relax ! Let him pursue you a little more!! "oh good luck to you both on your finals."
2006-12-14 14:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the way you asked this question,the man you are talking about might be shy and talking on the computer puts people at ease when they are uneasy in person and It sounds like his mom might have a lot to do with it too,dont give up ask him and I hope he gives you ananswer or you must move on.
2006-12-14 13:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like you are being INSECURE. Why don't you just tell him how you feel. If he isn't interested then MOVE ON. You should be concerned that he couldn't talk because his MOTHER came to grab him. Sounds like a MOMMA'S boy. Watch your step.
2006-12-14 13:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact or call him. Just tell him that you were wanting to know if he was interested in you, and why he hasn't pursued talking to you. You need to "Step up to the plant, and handle it!"
JUST DO IT !
2006-12-14 13:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow why do u guys make these ?'s soooooo long..... he likes you you guys are just really busy right now. Don't pester him you will sound needy and then he'll forget about you all together.
2006-12-14 13:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋