cps was investigating my exwife & me on child neglect,15 years ago & we lost the child only to be placed with other family members. my family!. and we divorced. well our daughter calls me wanting me to be a part of her life now that shes grown with kids of her own. and try & tell our daughter to not just do with me but have something too do with her mom also .my exwife is mad because our child did not contact her first and thinks that i am turning her againist my ex .but iam not my ex has no stable residence for her to have called her but i have doctors reports my ex does not . she lost her copys moving around so much. my ex hates it cause our daughter cares more for me & my exwife is showing her true colors. my family members will only read the papers to her and not let her read them herself. our child is full grown and should be able to read the papers . my family members dont her to know the truth and her to just beleave them since they raised her .
2006-12-14 05:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yup too much babbling show her the papers yourself. And if you really didn't do it take lie detectoir test to prove you have nothing to hide.
2006-12-14 05:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
( this question was somewhat like in the dr. phil show. There was a scene pretty much related to this story . i have no idea if u got this thing from there or not, but im gonna answer it anyway.) IF I WAS THE MOTHER OF THAT CHILD, I WOULD BEAT MY GUY'S *** WITH NO SECOND THOUGHT. AND IF MY BABY WAS LYING I WOULD SHUT THE HELL UP AND CALM MY *** DOWN. If yo honey, is really doing this to yo little sweetheart, then you should confront him for it. I know he'll be denying, same old agenda crap that a liar does. So if he doesn't tell the truth, you should make distance between your daughter and that man. As much as possible take him away from your sweetie. WHO IN THE WORLD WOULD MOLEST THEIR CHILD IF THEY LOVE THEIR CHILD? NOBODY. Your boyfriend should drift his nasty *** in some other prostitute ***** and not in your daughter. You should strengthen yourself, you should protect your daughter cause you are a mom. Doesn't mean that he's all nice and sweet to your kids, he doesn't have the skill to molest your child. He can molest your child coz he owes his body. To be frank with you, You should worry, you can't just leave your child being all molested by some dude that you thought was good. If you ain't sure that your boyfriend is molesting your daughter, well believe your daughter. Your daughter wouldn't be acting that hideous if she ain't experienced some hot thang. Your daughter wouldn't say "daddy" if she was just joking, I mean, she wouldn't use her dad if she was kidding. She would use another guy's name if all what she said was a joke. She can't use a "DAD" for a sexual joke cause she respects the dad. now why she usin dad now? cause it happened. I myself ain't sure about this cause I aint the daughter. But you gotta believe her. Shes the only thing you have and you aint lettin her be molested by somebody. NEVER.
2016-05-24 03:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Paula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd show her the papers! Then I'd press charges against your ex for defamation of character and slander! The burden of proof will lye on your ex to prove...she should not spread those types of stories as they can be detrimental to you.As for a relationship with your daughter - regardless who raised her- It's your child and she deserves the truth so give her a copy of the papers and move on with your lives together. Good Luck
2006-12-14 05:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is old enough now to know exactly what went on. Let her read them herself. If you have done nothing as she says you did, don't worry about it and let your daughter make the her own decisions. Don't make her have something to do with her mother, that is also her choice. She should know the truth, plain and simple. It may answer questions she has had for years.
2006-12-14 05:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an low -self esteem idiot to continue to hurt her daughter. People are liars and nothing you can do to stop it. The papers your refering to are public record and when your daughter stops playing games with you and the idiot ex she can find the truth at the local courthouse.After that your ex find something else to be mad about.
2006-12-14 07:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress on it. Just be good to your daughter. If anything comes out, show her the papers. You said she was grown. She can handle it. If it was me I'd want to be told.
2006-12-14 05:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your daughter everything and if its not true offer to take a lie Doctor tell to make her feel sure. Its better to come from you than a crazy ex wife
2006-12-14 05:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by smartypants 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way too much babbling. Just get the papers and show them to your daughter yourself.
2006-12-14 05:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your ex wife has alot of issues and needs help. You know it didnt happen I wouldnt let her get to you, she is only hoping your daughter will believe that it happened and have nothing to do with you, like she does her mother, your ex is jealous of you and your daughters relationship.
2006-12-14 05:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you molest her? If not why even worry about what she's saying. I know of a person that's not stable just like your ex-wife. But does the papers that you're referring to state that she was molested by you?
2006-12-14 05:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by MrsE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say look here woman I love my daughter with all my heart and I would never so help me god ever do something so nasty and disgusting to our daughter now you should trust me enough to know that I would never do something like that.
2006-12-14 05:43:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋