I have been together wit this one kid for a long time and yes i do love him alot.Like i still get butterflies in my tummy when he comes around me its supa dupa great.But see the big prob here is that i don't get to seee him alot because of football and my stupid job and that really suck ya know. And wen we do have time to spend together he just ignores it (well to me he does)I mean does he really luv me does he really want to be with me .So i mean do i tell him that i want to take a break or do i just deal wit it?
2006-12-14 05:11:56 · 15 answers · asked by Coolest Loser Ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him.. do you really want to be with me? cause sometimes I feel like you dont...
2006-12-14 05:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break definitly. It's better that way. If the guy doesn't appreciate you, then there's no point still hanging on to him. The butterflies in your stomach are probably just because of lust, not love. And if it's a break, then you can always get together again if you feel like he really is the one. Or you might find someone better...who knows?
2006-12-14 05:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Aicha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you have all your marbles invested for this "kid". Listen, when a guy "ignores" that means only one thing: He's tired of playing with your "marbles" you feel me?
If he was so busy with football to the point he does't see you at all, well that should make him want you more right? But from what you say...it aint happenin...
So go ahead and use the famous line : "This is not working, it's not you, it's me." or "We're too far apart, I'm sorry it's over."
You know there's lots of kids in the playground.
:)
2006-12-14 05:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by piazzao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ignores the only precious free time you and him have together, than he isnt taking the relationship seriously. His priorities are elsewhere.
2006-12-14 05:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by topmodel812001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women always want more time & attention than guys give - its human nature. He wants you because he can probably have anyone he wants and he has picked you. Hang on it can only get better later.
2006-12-14 05:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you should ask hikm starght up if he feels the same about you that you feel for him you knoe... you need to knoe you can't just be waisting your lyfe on a guy you really don't knoe how he feels about you... you knoe... so talk to him okay i sware it will help... it will give you your answer.... i knoe it will be hard but if you really wanna knoe then ask him ok... just ask him...
2006-12-14 05:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by enjoying_lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well girl if he still with you obviously he want you. what I would do is tease him. if yall are sexually active or wateva, tease him lightly on the phone...do things out of routine or somethin he wouldnt expect you to do 4 him.. ya kno? thats how i kept my bf ALWAYS interested in me
2006-12-14 05:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him
2006-12-14 05:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break.
2006-12-14 05:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by blue_prince_of_dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought u were talking about a child.Anyway take a break.
2006-12-14 05:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Blue flower 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋