i need some mental advice?

Question

um theres these kids at my school and they comtinue to makef un of me no matter what i do....and after a while it tore me down...i couldn't go oout in publc and i even considered killin myself....after that i went to tjherapy and it still didnt help all tjhey did was ame fun of me more. i switched schools and now its startin over again.....i need help bacuse i already tried killin myself and all i did was go to the hospital and get help....but i need someone or something to help me....if anyone can help me please!!!


o and also my parents are alcholics and they dont help me anymore....so please...help...please
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Answer 1

Kelli, you sound young and I know this won't mean much, but it really doesn't matter what your classmates say about you. YOU know the truth and that's all that counts.

I can't give you advice, because getting mean back won't solve the problem, but ignoring what they say will help.

If you ever need someone just to talk with, I will chat with you and try to help. I understand the parents situation and the school situation makes it tough for you trust someone, but if you take a chance, I am more then willing to listen.

Answer 2

The answer is not killin yourself, you need to find something that you do well and then you will find true friends who like you because you are "Unique", not weird, and they will like the same things that you do. As far as your parents go, you have to live with em' so you need to make the best of it and just get by. Graduate from school and them move on to college. You will find out that once you get through high school everything gets much better, harder but better. Everything will work out for you in the long run if you are patient. Good luck.

Answer 3

Hi calm down just think of the positive things in live and go to someone you can trust like a friend, your grandparents,the teacher,the school principal, your best friend and just look it at this point of view you are getting your education and one of these days they will be begging you for money or anything so go on with you life at your own beat and you will turn out to be a great person.My grandpa is an alcoholic and they say that he doesn't have a long time to live so just do what i do go talk to the people that care about you.

Answer 4

I know that I am a stranger to you but there are people out there that want to help you like I do.Even in your area. I think first things first...you should report your parents to the school couselor or authorities.YOu shouldn't be made to live with alcoholics.There are places that social workers can place you to live that are great.I know because I used to work in group homes and place kids with great families.As far as the harassment at school....Alot of people go through this at your age, it is very painful and embarassing and does make you want to give up etc but remember this time in your life is brief compared to all the time when your an adult.Kids are cruel and unkind, jealous, and have issues of unsecurity themselves.They do this to make themselves feel better.Don't let it get you down!!!! Think positive, all the time.Pray to God about this....Just say a prayer like this: Dear God I need you right now to come into my heart, I am a sinner and I ask you to wash me in the blood of Christ.I ask you to help me with my problems at school and home.Help me to live in the joy and peace you would have me live in. This will help you more than anything.Just have faith that God can take it all away. Don't let those kids know it bothers you.Ignore them.When I was a kid I also had this problem because I was overweight.One day I was on a field trip the bus was loaded and the teacher( who was overweight) came back in to get me on the way to the bus all the kids were yelling free willy and shamu the whale.The teachers never did anything, the bus driver, the innocent students etc. It was all a big joke.It really hurt me for a while but when I got in high school it got a little better but When I graduated and finally got out of that dreadful place LIFE WAS DIFFERENT!!! I had nice goodlooking guys hitting on me, guys with nice jobs and friends who accepted me for me....I am still overweight.I am married to a professional hot guy, have two beautiful girls, and an awesome house and all those people who were making my life hell are either on drugs, in prison, living in housing authorities(which I grew up in and was made fun of about this), broke, or overweight now or just ugly now.So once you get past that hump life is so much better.Just SHOW everyone what your made of.....Don't be alcoholics like your parents, don't be a mean person like all those people saying hurtful things to you....Finish school and make something of yourself.Don't let them win.Suicide isn't the answer and giving up isn't either.You just focus on school, get your grades high and keep them there, change your attitude, don't give those kids any attention when they bother you, If they know it bothers you that makes it worse.And keep God close to you, pray everyday for God to help you.I know that things are going to be better for you.I will pray for you and if you want you can email me at [e-mail] and I will help you in anyway I can.If theres a will theres a way.I know you feel isolated, don't want to go to school, feel alone, and hurt but LOOK UP and see your Light.God Bless and Good Luck!

Answer 5

sounds like someone needs some confidence... those who are confident don't get picked on.. I understand this isn't easy when your parents are the way they are...I don't know how old you are... their are counselors who help those who parents are addicted ..... as for being picked on at a new school... your giving off some kind of persona that makes the kids willing to pick on you... what you need to do is break the cycle ... continue to seek help.... don't ever put your head down.. hold your head up high.. be proud of who you are.. this may take sometime for you to get there... but don't get discouraged... don't talk stupid... you don't want to kill yourself or you wouldn't of seeked help.... as for the hospitals... your parents could give you better advise than those morons over at the hospital.... I don't know much of your personality so its difficult to go into any further detail about advise... just hang in there honey...

Answer 6

I do not know if you will understand this but a wise neighbor lady of my growing up neighborhood always said "If they are talking about me they are leaving other people alone." Then I adopted an I do not care attitude...
I hate bullying. Go to the guidance counselor or principal. The click needs faced down. Ask parents if you can take up karate...My son had the same problem and boy did karate help the whole situation out...He went from confused to handling his own problems with great joy...Good luck Prayers

Answer 7

Can you go to your school counselor? Perhaps, just perhaps, you're thinking that the other kids are making fun of you when they aren't really. It's been a while since I've been young so I'm not sure on how kids act these days.

Does your family attend a church? If so, can you go to your pastor and ask for some help and advice? Can you get involved with a youth group there and hopefully find one person to be your friend?

Answer 8

I know exactly where you are coming from. I never had any friends, and everybody used to laugh at me, and my dad was an alcoholic and mom was a control freak. This really messes you up. The best thing to do is to think of the things you can do well and work on those things to make the best of it. Seeing a therapist sometimes helps, but that costs money. Killing yourself is not the answer "God doesn't make no junk". If you have any religious beliefs that is helpful because you know if no one else cares about you at least you have God on your side. P. S. I'm 60 years old and still have no friends. I'd like to make you a friend!

Answer 9

Go to your school conselor and tell them you are being neglected at home. They wont take you away unless your life is in danger and no one will know it was you. I had to call social services twice on my foster parents. Once for starving my sister and once for beating me with a vacuum cord. They didn't remove us, just gave the parents a slap on the wrist, but it gets them on their toes.

And school is not forever. Once you leave school, its over with. Its not something you need to lose your life over. Being made fun of is not the worst thing that could happen. You don't mention why they make fun of you. Are you an easy target? Thats not ment to be mean, its a rule of life. Some people are targeted more than others. You need to find ways to make yourself an unappealing victim. I suggest you talk to the school counselor. Due to the violence in schools lately, they have to take you seriously. If they don't contact social services independantly, and they will help you.

Answer 10

Do you have another older adult you can talk to? A grandparent or a teacher? I would suggest talking to a teacher about the taunting. And don't listen to anyone that gives you the saying "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me" because name calling/taunting can be much more harmful than physical harming. Talk to a teacher not just because of taunting but how it is affecting you emotionally. You sound very depressed. Are you on meds? Please reach out to others to get the help you need! Also keep talking to people until you find someone that listens and can truly help.