I'm in love for the time first at the age of 23 but now i wanna move on but i cant cause im still in love so what should i do?
2006-12-14 04:08:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is really no remedy for love. Time is the only thing that will cure you..as time goes by, you will get stronger and think of your "love" less and less. You will have good days and bad ones, but your heart will heal.
2006-12-14 04:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find yourself first and what it is you want out of life and this relationship. If you want to move on then maybe you are just not ready for the commitment that love takes! Being in love is a serious emotion that is often confused with infatuation which is a temporary emotion that soon passes. Is this a commitment of convenience for you? Meaning is it convenient because you get what you need from time to time but are not willing to give more than you want? Think about it because it doesn't sound like love is what you feel for this guy if you are just ready to move on. And this is not fair to him if you are leading him to believe there are true possibilities in this relationship.
2006-12-14 12:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are describing is not love. It is dependence or attachment or something else...figure out what it REALLY is. But it is NOT love.
First Loves when we are little are infatuations or sexual lust.
LOVE....real love, does not "just happen". Love always does what is in the best interest of the other person. It is not selfish, it is not rude, it is patient, it is kind, love is not self-seeking,
If you want to know about LOVE, read your Bible...that is where it came from in the first place. And if you want to read a RATED XX book in the Bible???? Read the book of Solomon.....Whewwww! Now THAT is some sexy reading!!
2006-12-14 12:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Wisconsin Scuba Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fall out of love at any age or with any numbered love...the idea that love always lasts forever is a myth...sometimes it does, more often it doesn't (at least not in the same form).
If you want to move on, then allow yourself to do that. You can love someone but be 'in love' with them...not want to be with them...it's okay to care about that person for the rest of your life, but if you know they aren't a good match for you then it's okay to move on with your life so you can possibly cross paths with someone who is (a good match).
Good luck.
2006-12-14 12:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well was this your first love that you been with or was there other's are they treating you as if they don't want you they i would move on but if they still want to be with you you should try to make it work with the two of you but if they there feeling is no there like your then move on cause there other people out there and it's ain't to late to find one
2006-12-14 12:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by MRS DEE 2 U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you are not alone im 22 and is my 1st time to fall hard in love with someone who i cant be with .... I just tell myself that everything happens for a reason . Good Luck
2006-12-14 12:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not still in love or u wouldn't want to move on so just move on. ps let him down easy guys feel more than they show
2006-12-14 12:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should engage in the behavior all women engage in. Foolishly wish for something that is never going to happen and throw yourself at him for the rest of your life.
2006-12-14 12:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by RScott 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋