I like most beautiful and sexy girls, but they don't like me because I am ugly. So what should I do?

Question

I am asking that question because I get attracted to beautiful girls and I don't see ugly girls like women, you know what I mean, even when they have no cloth I don't feel anything. Please help me by answering this question

Answer 1

Save your money and get cosmetic surgery for whatever parts don't look that great on you. Buy nice clothes and look good. Then you will be able to get the good looking girls. People are normally attracted to other people that are on their attractiveness level. So if you are ugly, unless there are some extraordinary circumstances, like you are a celebrity you probably won't be able to get them.

Answer 2

First off, even though looks are essential the first thing we recognize in a person, it isn't always the most important. People will essentially go for the best looking people to date, only to find out that they have the personality of a brick or are really self-centered and petty. A sense of humor, quick wit, and the ability to hold a conversation go a long way, maybe even more than most realize. Ever notice really good looking women with guys you'd call a "dork" or that aren't really tip top in the looks department? Chances are they can provide what the woman needs emotionally. He listens to her, he confides in her, he cares what she has to say. Not to mention most guys don't jump at the chance to try and get an extremely good looking girl. They assume that they are taken and never try. I've had female friends that are drop dead gorgeous cry to me on the phone that no guys ever talk to them.

If you make a woman feel like a person of importance more than a trophy piece of meat, then chances are they will notice you. You have to show what's on the inside to overcome what you feel is lacking on the outside. Also, how you feel about yourself is how other people will feel about you. If you view yourself as nothing, how are others supposed to view you in a high regard? You may not be the best looking, but that doesn't mean you are nothing. Keep your head up, someone will come along, just believe in yourself. You lose nothing by trying and failing, but have potentially everything to gain.

Answer 3

Make a lot of money!! Girls are really attracted to power and money. You would surprise to how many girls will date and go with a ugly rich guy( LOOk at the rapper who wears the clocks around his neck.) Go into software engineering, or some field where you can make a lot of money. And if being ugly really bothers you, take some of the money and do a face/body make over. An as for your immediate concern about being with girls fixed your self up as much as possible. If you are out of shape get in shape, focus on your person hygiene, and girls do like guys with great personality ,let it shine thru........perhaps you get lucky.

Answer 4

im sorry you are so down on yourself! I doubt you are ugly! it is probably because your thought process shows in your actions and when you are speaking! women do not like a man who is not confident and does not accept themselves! everyone has something wrong with themselves that they do not like but be honest with yourself! you must have many great qualities that you can be proud of! Think about it then get back on here and ask why girls aren't going for that amazing quality that you possess!

Answer 5

What? How are you going to look down on a girl who you consider to be unattractive and you are not attractive yourself???? Don't ask for what you can't give. Its not really about looks anyway because beauty fades. I think that you should lower your expectations.

Answer 6

You cant help liking who you like. I have learned that ugly men make the best "secret"! My main man is handsome but my other man is ugly...the ugly man comes to my house or I go to his but I never take him out in public! He gives me money and writes checks to pay my bills and he treats me like a queen when we are together, but we don't spend enough time together. He tries to please me in every way and I'm beginning to think I'm using him....You say you are ugly...how would you feel being treated this way? If you don't want to be treated this way then you should find an average looking woman who will love you for the person you are. beauty isn't everything....

Answer 7

Beauty is skin deep. Try going for personality...you don't see a persons outer looks after you've been with them for a long time.

Answer 8

One needs to be and see beauty from within for it to show on the out. Adjust your thinking somewhat, and life will change for you as well. Best wishes :)

Answer 9

maybe you should change your opinion of what a beautiful and sexy girl is. You know fake yourself out.

Answer 10

Dude, that's pretty shallow....you'll have to come around eventually, and that's when you'll notice a change. And your self confidence is lagging also. That's probably a good starting point.