Well i'm a senior in high school. i'm going to be 18 in a couple of months. those are just a few details you need to know before you read the rest. Recently, a new music teacher was employed at my school. She's about 22, very beautiful, and single. We talk and hang out a lot for pep band and other musically related stuff. The wierd thing is, that i think i'm starting to feel attracted to her. Should i pursue this and try to make it work, or should i hold off, wait until i'm 18, or just end this before anything happens. There are more details so if you want to know them and help me out just ask and i'll send you an email. Thanks for listening.
2006-12-14 03:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by greatpharohcesar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi, first of all this feelings you are having is not wrong and he he you are not going crazy.
Well first of all you got to make sure of your feelings. Whether the feelings is just comfortable friendship, or maybe more than that. Of course secondly you have to assess how her feedback and body language with you each time. Is it just a teacher to student relationship??
Your another concern on whether you should bring this bond to another level?? OK it's a huge things in US yeah if teacher get involved with student. I would say you should continue building your relationship with her. Let her know of your feelings if you are sure its a mutual feelings between you two. However, to make it public, i would advice you wait till you leave that high school??
At the end the best is for you to discuss with her this matter and get her opinions.. Clarify your feelings.. clear it out of your system. Better be bold than regret not knowing what could happen! Good luck.
2006-12-14 04:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by DramaQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think u should wait. and nine times out of ten there are about a hundred other guys that have a crush on her. But Also she's a teacher, her future is pretty set. You should be trying to play catch up to her.
2006-12-14 03:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email with more details as i might be able to help more. my friend dated a teacher at my school once and it was a diaster the teacher lost his job/carer and the pupil was the laughing stock for ages. If i was you and with the details we knoe now i would forget this lady before you get in too deep and cant get out.
2006-12-14 03:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...please wait! Graduate from high school and then pursue a relationship with her. While it's exciting for you and probably her as well, she's risking her career. If you really like her, you don't want to be responsible for putting her name in a bad light.
2006-12-14 03:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweety, take it easy and relax. Wouldn't want you to get all embarrased at the end of it!
Being in highschool could make it worse as there are approximately 500-600 other people who could very well make the situation crazy hectic!
All the best with you and your fair lady!
2006-12-14 03:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong!!! She is a teacher, have you seen the news about students and teachers???
Wait until after you graduate and then see if a relationship is possible, but not until then!
2006-12-14 04:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,at least wait til your of legal age.That isnt much of an age difference when you are adult.But,,she is your teacher so,,it may make a relationship difficult.Just remain friends for now.
2006-12-14 03:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait untill you are 18 and get a job or go to school your self.She may be,being nice to you and you may think it`s more than it is.Anyway,you`er not sure of how she feels,so don`nt get your hopes up to high.
2006-12-14 03:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww, never fall for your teacher. that is just weird. even if she is young. You will be graduated in a few months, and never see her again. End it now
2006-12-14 03:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by always confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋