girls advanced advice?

Question

What would happen if at sometime you like a guy and he starts to like you. But he hang with his friend that are female and male. In some point he treats you like s**t when he hanging with his friends.Then the next time he see you he acts like he did not do anything to hurt you. But inside you just want to beat the crap out of him. All of a sudden he does it all over again, but you like him and you can take it off your mind that he's hot. How would you stop it from continuing to hurt you.

Do you have a solution for this type of problem?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

My advice is dump him. People who change in social situations are wolves in sheep's clothing. If he doesn't treat you well ALL the time he's a phony. Here's my tips for a prosperous relationship:

Everytime I hear the saying "opposites attract" I cringe because that couldn't be any farther from the truth. For people to be in a relationship with you, both of you should be totally insync with each other on most levels, sure we're not all the same, but the person you love should be your best friend. Yes you heard me say it, BEST FRIEND, as in someone you can trust completely, talk to about ANYTHING and everything, RELY upon, and share common interests. Someone who will always be there for you and accept you no matter what circumstances occur, good, bad, or indifferent. You should also know everything about that person's life, and understand their personality, flaws, good traits, ect. Remember, communication, communication, communication! Know your partner!

All of this takes a lot of TIME to create, a lot of talking and getting to know the person before leaping on them, making out, having sex, ect. This is why most people FAIL at relationships, because they are total strangers trying to make up for a lifetime of not knowing the person they are with, therefore there is no base for trust. Hence, friendship 1st is absolutely crucial.

I speak from personal experience because I am in a loving relationship that is all of those things and more.

Answer 3

he's only going to do to you what you let him do to you. if he really likes you, at least the way that you like him, he wouldn't act different in front of his friends. period.
just because he's hot doesn't give him license to treat you like crap. but you need to put your foot down and tell him that you don't like the way his behavior flip-flops according to the company. if he continues treating you like crap, then you need to move on. there are other hot guys out there that not only look good, but also have manners.
and keep in mind that because he is "hot" he probably treats a lot of girls this way; and they probably all tolerate it.
my knee-jerk reaction says, "leave him alone. he's a jerk!" but give him a chance to change his behavior. if his behavior stays the same, then you need to walk away and never look back. who knows? once he sees that you're serious and won't be treated any kind of way, he might find that attractive and come running back to you.
good luck!

Answer 4

My solution would be to tell him straight up that he hurts ur feelings when he treats u like sh*t then acts like he do a thing n that he's going to loose u if he doesn't start treating;u with respect.If he gives up so easily then he wasn't meant 4 u whateva happens it's all 4 the best.

Answer 5

I think you should just forget him. I had the same problem and i decided that i want someone that will be proud of me and not push me away. No matter how much you like this guy you should go for someone that treats you good no matter who they are with.. If you are worth it to him he should just forget his friends and if he isnt willing to do that then you don't need him. Its kinda like the movie A Walk to Rememer.He had to choose friends or love....

Answer 6

Set a boundary. Tell him that it really hurts you when he treats you like that around his friends, and, if he continues to do it, you will not see him anymore. If you don't set the boundary, he will think it's ok to do it and will continue. If he likes you and RESPECTS you, he will honor your wishes. If he doesn't stop, then you know you don't want to be with someone that doesn't respect you.
Hope this helps!! Good luck.

Answer 7

When he is mean to you, 1. Give him an evil glare. 2. Pull him aside and tell him that he cannot treat you like that or you will find someone to beat the you-know-what out of him. (or you could lol)

Answer 8

Either he's known as a player........or he's very immature.
I expect he's probably the latter. Which says he's not ready for your maturity. Dont give it a another thought.....Enjoy your circle of friends, and you'll stumble over someone of interest when you're least expecting it.

Answer 9

if he was treating me like **** id move on and find another guy the only way to solve this problem is o get over him and stop wasting your time its obivious hes friends are more important

Answer 10

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Answer 11

yes. don't talk to him. don't date him. get him out of your life. very simple. he's trying to be a hard *** in front of his friends and treat you like crap. don't put up with it.