He,s contacted me once in a week since i had sex wth him and then he was funny, he used to contact me often, why are men like this, we don,t go off men cos we have sex with them why should men go off us, seems weird to me. why do men go off women cos they have sex wtih them, i regret it i was drunk when it happend would not let it happen again, but to be treated like this, when he used to phone me alot and we got on. i thought he was a better person than this. My friend said hes taken advenage of my good nature. I am beggining to get angry now.
2006-12-14 03:36:30 · 17 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cos you were a challenge and now he has conquered you
2006-12-14 03:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it happens some times dont blame all men now actually when one gets his aim fullfilled then this is the result. sometimes this also happens that one feels bad about it and feels guility for doing wat he did again one does not want to have any strings attached to the relation and he feels if he continues like that then there may be some problem which can come in the future. But in nutshel you feel dejected by doing what he has done yes u have every right to feel so but what one can do when the other party is not ready for maintaining the relation so dont beg for his relation stand firm forget the past and try to move ahead and some good gentle man again will come to you and taht time it may work better as u are now experienced little.At the same time if u also do same thing to some one who is close to u and depended a lot on u ?
2006-12-14 11:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by ravishr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that!! It happens alot i asure and don't think that it is because of anything you did or didn't do. The easiest thing for me to say is get over it but i know its not that simple. If i were you i'd confront him. He may be embarressed about the situation. Maybe go out for a drink and talk it over. He doesn't have to be the first one to make a move. What i will say to you is that at least you've learned a lesson about alcohol and sex and that they don't mix well. Good luck whatever happens!! x
2006-12-14 11:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by aimee b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's men for you. It's all about the fun of the chase I'm afraid. When you're doing your own thing, they'll follow you around and fawn over you.As soon as they get their jollies they're on their toes. It's a conquest thing. I'm sorry that this has happened to you but at least now you know what this guy is really like. There are some great men out there and I hope you find one worthy of you soon.
2006-12-14 11:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by marykin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to let him get to you sweetie although thats hard to do!! I have been there more than once and still have not learnt. My advise to you is to be cool and not contact him. You may not hear from him but stay strong as if he doesn't contact you then he is not worth it and you will find someone better or because you haven't txt him he may become interested again.
Hope my info works babe just something i have learnt through men acting like prats.
x
2006-12-14 11:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Vamp82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When are people going to realize just because you're old enough to have sex doesn't mean you should.
For people with morals sex is more than sharing a bit of fun and some body fluids.
Learn a lesson from this & it won't happen to you again.
2006-12-14 11:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this has happened to you but it is not at all unusual. Don't answer the phone next time. Let him wonder what he did wrong. Meantime you should go and forget all about him. he's an idiot anyway - he should at least have had the decency to wait till you had sobered up!
2006-12-14 11:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling, i'm in the same situation. But make no effort to call him act as if he was YOUR one nitestand! Give him time and enjoy yours that little phucker will be blowing your phone up!
2006-12-14 11:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels guily for taking advantage of you good nature. be patient for a few more days and then move an and chock it up to experience Best wishes for you
2006-12-14 11:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by sickand tired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like a challenge and will say anything to get you into bed.
then they will dump you quicker than you can say see ya later.
sad and annoying but a common trait.
2006-12-14 13:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because he is a piteously indecent scoundrel and a malodorous, air-polluting sanctimonious spurious sciolist.
2006-12-14 12:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋