I have been seeing a guy for almost a year but neither of us will say we're in a relationship. At first we were both seeing other people as well but since august it's only been each other. Due to our work situation we're also living together at the moment in my apartment. I'm really stuck as i really care about him but the last time i brought it up in conversation he freaked! But he's still sleeping with me!! Am i a fool? There is also someone else i'm interested in. And while this is going on i can't really bring myself to even say hi!
2006-12-14 02:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by aimee b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to tell you, but yes you are a fool. This guy is basically telling you that you are good enough for now, but someone better is out there and I want to coast on you until I find her. I know that this hurts. You need to sit down and talk to him. You can be roomates, but after all this time, it's time for a commitment or no nookie for him. Move on to the other guy. Give that a try. You will more than likely find out that there are much better men out there and that you have been selling yourself short for the past year with this child.
2006-12-14 03:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you might be being used a F**K buddy i am afraid!
If he freaked when you asked about what kind of relationship you guys have then i doubt he can be serious about you. You need to talk to him and find out what the hell is going on tell him you have had enough adn want the truth!
Sorry to be harsh Hun but you need to work out your feelings for him too you can't go on like this it's not fair on you.
Good luck.
2006-12-14 11:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a fool and fooling your self in the bargain,this guys got the best of every think,sex on tap,you probably do most of the cooking cleaning,and washing the cloths,its time for a wake up call on yourself
2006-12-14 11:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a sexual relationship, need I say more. You need to decide if you can live like this. Not knowing if you are committed to each other, or are you just someone he is sleeping with.
2006-12-14 11:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's not willing to commit to you, AND you have interest in another, then you have every rite to advise him that your living arrangement must cease. If for no other reason, you need to make a decision for yourself as well. And PLEASE do NOT too quickly, live with this other person of interest. That's what dating is all about........to discover interests and compatibility of others BEFORE giving your heart and body!
2006-12-14 11:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see you're stuck in a rut. If he won't commit to the relationship you both have, dump him. He was cheating on his while you were cheating on yours. Why wouldn't he do the same to you?
Good luck with that!
2006-12-14 11:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by I Might Even Be a Rock Star... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your problem? if you're not in a committed relationship with your apartment mate then i see no problem in you seeing the new guy..
2006-12-14 11:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afool sorry
he may be just using you for the apartment
go wild
with the other guy you fancy
lifes too short to deAl with the strangeness of others
2006-12-14 11:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Chunkylover53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sod the hi's- try the rear hunny..
2006-12-14 11:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋