friends,
i am a well natured boy or you can say that i am simply a good boy....
my problem is that i liked a girl but her attitude firstly matched with me but now now at all... she has now started flying in high sky... and i am unable to understand this sudden change in her nature...
let me tell you i am one of the most smart guy of my class... so i think this is the main reason ... why she is flying...
this sudden/abrupt change in her nature really confuses me....
I am frm India... and here girls are normally shy...
she also knew that i liked her.... but her response is towards those boys whom i not like at all...
she frankly chat me at phone but when we meet face to face... we can't express ourself...
truly saying... now i am fed up as this is g'ing since last 3 months... and her attitude is not matching at all....
really i am fed up..
i simply wanna forget her but can't do so.... plz suggest what to do...!!!also tell me next time how to judge a girl suits me
2006-12-14 02:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, move up and forget her. When she calls, tell her you are busy. And when you meet the right woman, you will know in your heart. It sounds silly and stupid, but any HAPPY couple will tell you they knew when they met that that person was the "one". Good luck!
2006-12-14 02:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by lee911 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is the girl from the same country as you? I don't understand your term "flying in high sky". Is she on drugs? It don't sound like you two had any romantic relationship anyways. Don't make yourself look so eager and desperate. that is such a big turn off. you need to take time to get to know the girl. You are in America not India. Here girls can do whatever they want to do. Let things happen naturally don't go scouting girls to see which ones suits you. Relationship has got to be both ways. This girl obviously did not consider you as a boyfriend material. Focus on your studies and please give us american girls a break. Go home to India, stand by a post and start scouting for women that will match you and will be subordinate to you and stay there. I'm gonna go now 'cause I find myself getting more irate as I am writing this...
2006-12-14 03:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by inpain_2long 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for the spark. If you feel all happy and excited when you talk to a girl or if she acts the same way then you know its time to try. Its hard to understand people some times and you really have to read them deep. She may be playing hard to get or maybe she isnt interested. There are alot of fish in the sea says the old saying. Don't just stay interested in one. You will forget her you will see and find ms. right.
2006-12-14 02:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Opu,
So you're indian, as i am. Let me ask you one thing. Is she an indian girl? If she's not.. then don't..trust me do not waste your time. If she is.. then i think you should tell her that she is so full of drama that it doesn't complement your personality. Stay true to being indian. It doesn't suit us to be westernized when it comes to family and relationships. And i think you would have to pass some wrong ones to finally meet the right one. I feel for you. Take care and good luck....
Rone de aaj humko tuu ankhein suujaane de
Baahon mein le le aur khud ko bhiig jaane de
2006-12-14 03:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by sabrewilde666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk to her about it. Maybe there is a reason for her sudden shyness. There could be something going on in her life that's bothering her and keeping her distant. Maybe there's something she wants to tell you or is keeping from you, possibly feeling guilt, and so she finds it easy to talk to you on the phone but backs off when she sees you face to face. Just talk to the girl. If she's no longer interested, you have to find a way to move on. Hope it works out for you.
2006-12-14 02:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by artsycasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sweety,I am from maryland home of disappointment.honestly i would say move on to a girl who wants to speak to you on the phone&in public.obviously its either she's endenial about her feelings and don't want it to be noticed by the society.then there's the whole embarrasment point of life.Where she act funny in away your are describing her.Ask her if she's embarresed about you or move on.In time you have to let life do its course and eventually you will find someone.hope&kisses
2006-12-14 03:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by michelle r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not match any more?
Is it just because she is becoming more independent?
Try to talk more if you still like her.
Otherwise, you will need to occupy yourself with something else, like sport, or the computer, until you get over her. It will take some time, but you will eventually get over her.
2006-12-14 03:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even bother abt her. Go for girls in your class or around u who appreciate u for who u are and just move on. U have many things to think of besides this or any girl. Concentrate on your studies for now
2006-12-14 02:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first ..I think you didn't know her at all and you judged about her very fast .she didnt change ,you point of view changed ..she was shy and she's still shy..to forget her you must stop talking to her and let her to know what you think about the relation with her ..but about finding a girl to be your type ,I think it's only you to search and find ..but next time open your eyes and dont judge too fast..
2006-12-14 02:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to your heart. try to talk to her and tell her how you feel. but if she doesnt like you then try really hard to move on.
2006-12-14 03:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋