what is da problem, sometimes i just wanna have a guy to be there for me, u know. i want a man in my life, but da question is are guys nowadays shy to ask girls out, or is it just the boys at my school.lol
2006-12-14 02:50:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i say staire i mean they be saying things like, "u better get with dat" or "damn look at her, she look good" or alwayz just smiling at me. i mean if u like me y canyt u say something, u know. or at least talk to me instead of making comments like dat, u know>
2006-12-14 02:55:13 · update #1
Some are shy, some are intimidated. Some times it depends on how you carry yourself. Do you give off the air of being unapproachable? Maybe if you are interested in a guy that you believe is interested in you, saying hello as you casually walk by will give him the green light he needs to open up. Don't be too forward just be you. That is more than enough.
2006-12-14 02:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Msright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS DA PROBLEM ? To start with - I don't know your age or what you look like - but it doesn't really matter. I am a male and of dating age and I would not want to ask a girl out that can not speak very well, can't spell, has no grammar or even an idea of what that is. If you don't care any more about your ability to converse then you probably don't take any better care of your outward appearance. I don't really know what they see when they look at you but I sure do know what they hear - and what a turn off. Work hard to educate yourself and increase your speaking and writing ability - it will take you to great places - and the nice young men there will appreciate you. And most of all - you will feel so much better about yourself. Good luck . . .
2006-12-14 03:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Easy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys are still afraid to ask a girl out so why don't you take the initiative and ask the guy out that you like. Maybe they just do not know how to approach you. So it is up to you to approach them and set them at ease. Before you know it you will be in a great conversation and on your way to a wonderful date. Take the lead guys love it and you will be rewarded for it. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-14 02:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are scared to ask a girl out. Some think you look like the type they can just walk up to and ask out. Have the balls to do it for them. If you like the guy don't wait for him to make a move, go do it yourself. You just might get lucky. Good luck
2006-12-14 02:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mellow_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are still shy guy's out there but mostly there's jerk out there like the guy that said something about boogers. If you think a guy is shy and wants to ask you out go up to him and ask him if you have something on your face? Nine times out of ten if he wants to ask you out that will be the ice breaker.
2006-12-14 02:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by yelleygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live?. ill be your b/f. Ive asked so many girls to date me, ill get their phone #, call them and then they always say some **** like, i'm really busy this weekend, next weekend we'll hang out. that pisses me off so now I rarely bother. If i want some *** I'll just go to a strip joint or the bar. multiple rejection over years makes guys shy
2006-12-14 02:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are wierd. I should know. One thing is for sure, we are foolish. We stare because we think you're cute, but we sometimes lack the courage to approach you. It would help if you see a guy staring, and you think he's cute, say "hi" and try to start a conversation. We're like scared little animals. Our instincts lead us to you, but we are freightened by the attraction, especially when we are around our friends or youes.
2006-12-14 02:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I think guys are starting to get shy about girls because they know we are going to expect to be treated with dignity and respect, some guys can't do that. They also know that we have higher standards nowadayz! so just keep your head up and that one person that is meant for you will walk up to you and ask you out. Patience is the key ; )
2006-12-14 02:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by heavenly_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't want to ask you out. Maybe they stare becasue you have booger, or lazy eye ball. Or maybe because you're 12.
Loser men always talk big, making rude comments, but never do anything about it. It's shameful to talk to a woman like that. YOu should not listen to someone who say things like "I want to tap that..."
Listen to Yammaha, I know the ways of love.
2006-12-14 02:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋