I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again
2006-12-14 02:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pass her a note - "I think you're beautiful - are you single?" Remember, she is at work - she may be uncomfortable being hit on in that setting.
2006-12-14 03:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have this problem with this bank and you were wondering if she can help - then give her a legit bank deposit slip or any bank form and spell it out on the paper - that you are a decent guy and would like to get to know her better - and you would like to go out, or would like an email address or phone number.
Be really charming about it and smile, dress real nice too.
2006-12-14 10:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Trini Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if she has a boyfriend she's still single ;-) she probably talks with the other bank teller anyways so don't worry about her listening. Say hi, smile, hand her 2 bank notes, 1 for business, the other is your phone number and a sweet note. smile smile smile
2006-12-14 10:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by angelicusbeefus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you go to make a transaction have a short note already written on a piece of paper asking her for coffee or something, if of course you don't want the other teller to hear. If it were me I'd just ask her regardless of whose around.
2006-12-14 10:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you are at the bank, make sure that you go to her window and check our her left hand ring finger for an engagement or wedding band. If you spot no ring, then start a conversation about boyfriends/girlfriends. Like I bet your boyfriend is probably going to get you a ring for your left hand and then see what she says. Or you can just straight out ask her if she marries or otherwise involved.
2006-12-14 10:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm........be a man and talk to her. Ask her out for dinner or a drink. If she is with someone, you'll find out. Who cares what the teller next to her thinks???
2006-12-14 10:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Who cares if the other teller hears. If she wants to go out with you, she will. If not, move on.
2006-12-14 10:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by firedncer80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cheesy and slip her a note asking her out while you are handing her your things your takeing care of at the bank.
2006-12-14 10:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nx time you visit........send in a deposit slip asking if she's free to date. If she replies with a yes, send in a withdrawal slip, asking if she'd consider going to (where ever) with you.
If she responds that she's NOT able to date at this time. Please let her know that you accept her response, adding that you hope she lets you know when she IS able.
That's about all you can do. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-14 10:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her! She'll appreciate the honesty. If she is involved/not interested, don't be discouraged or embarrassed, just move on. You'll meet someone else.
2006-12-14 10:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋