i got dumped coz my ex was cheating on me, we were together for two years and loved every second of it, thing is ive met a real cool girl now and cant stop thinking about my ex i mean it was over a year and half ago, and still haunts me as i see my ex in everything she does and even in the flat where i live this aint righ is it???
2006-12-14 02:07:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need closure from you're ex girlfriend. you need to ry and get rid of all the stuff that reminds you of her. i know it sounds like a lot of stuff but u will have to move on if you ever want to be in anothere relationship
2006-12-14 02:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by SkilledKid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should hurt things like that always do forever and forever i miss boys from when i was in middle school and i have gotten over what i mean to say is that it's been two years and you've met someone new get to be with her a little longer and it'll go away for the most part somethings that she did with you will come up again in with this new girl and you'll see that it will hurt no matter how you try but i need to point out the facts for you she was cheating on you that means she didn't think much about you so it's good that you found some one new all i have to say is live your life because if you do that it will be betterget your head in the game!
Jenelle
2006-12-14 02:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jenelle H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. When someone breaks your heart it is really hard to move on. You can't let go of it.
The best thing to do is try though. I'm in a great relationship right now. If you find someone that you really love then that right there will make everything better.
When I find myself thinking about the guy who broke my heart, I just turn around and picture my boyfriend now and how wonderful he is, how much fun we have had so far, and how much fun we are going to have. It makes all the pain go away. Sometimes I will talk to him about it too, he's human he knows how I feel.
You can't live in the past, and you need to make everyday a new beginning.
2006-12-14 02:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by always confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, everyone has relationships that they wish didn't end they way they did. You're thinking about your ex because most likely it was the first time you felt things like that from your significant other. Now that this other girl is in your life, you're wanting the same thing from her. The memories lead you back to your ex.
Bottom line, there's nothing to worry about. Start the relationship with this new girl the right way, and those thoughts will stop.
2006-12-14 02:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joel are you still hanging on to things your ex gave you? If you are you need to get rid of them right away. You will never get over her that way! Also you will never have an healthy relationship with another female if you keep dwelling on the past. You have to put this behind you and move on. I know break ups hurt and can be long lasting. I am in the mist of a break up myself. You just have to realize things happen for reasons and your break up with her may of been the best thing for you.
Hang in there!
2006-12-14 02:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i met this guy earlier on in the year. He was so sweet, cute...and we started dating. We went out for a long time. I loved every minute of our relationship. But it turned out, that he was going over to one of my friends house several times and cheating on me. He dumped me the next day, and told me he had "problems he needed to work out" and "He didn't want to be in a relatinship right now" but the day after that he started dating my friend, and they are still dating eachother now.
OMG, it hurt so bad. But what i did, is get into other relationships. I mean yeah...it still hurts to think about him cheating on me. And seeing them together all the time....blah! I hate it! But the feeling does go away, i promise.
2006-12-14 02:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting cheated on hurts and is very hard to get over. But when you truely find someone you love it will be just a memory. Maybe the girl you are now seeing is just that..."A cool girl" but not "the one" ....yet. You sound like you are still pretty young. Give it time.
2006-12-14 02:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by tessie452004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too and I am still mad as hell about it! I mean thoughts pop into my head out of no where! I can hear a song and get mad. I am haunted that he could sleep with someone and share what we had with someone else! I am still in pain and it has been since August 2006 and I am hurt! A new relationship will not help, but time will heal all! Stay strong mami! :) You can e-mail me at latinatexas@yahoo.com or IM at latinatexas
2006-12-14 02:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was with my girl for 3yrs and the scary thing is, is that she's my baby mama now so i got it twice as worse bcuz now i HAVE 2 see her, but what i can tell you is that ur always going 2 have her in ur heart especially if u loved her, and u cant change that but you can move on and find another,and once u fall in love with that otha special one then u should b able 2 4get about ur ex dat cheated on u!!! -Justin Roberts
2006-12-14 02:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by aznchick615 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, but you need to move on. She has already hurt you enough and you have to make up your mind not to let her continue to hurt you now that she is out of your life. Check out the new girl and leave the past in the past. Good luck.
2006-12-14 02:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋