What do i tell him?

Question

Ok so i told this guy that ive been going out with 4 3 mounths im not a virgin...Hes coming over to my house this saturday and we plan on having sex...should i tell him that i am really a virgin? How bad will it hurt? And ive already had oral with him so weve done stuff together before

Im 18!!!!!!

Answer 1

sweetie, yes you should tell him, actually you should let him know your secret before Saturday. because if you wait it might ruin the moment with him and he may not be able to do it because it will put the pressure on him that he is your first. but then again, he might be ecstatic about you giving ur virginity to him.

And by the way how old are you? And you need to make sure you are protected, because it only takes one time, to make a baby or contract a horrible disease. And please dont do it because he is pressuring you, if you dont want to, then dont.


be blessed, and i hope you make the right decision.

Answer 2

I don't think you are ready to have sex if you are lying to a guy about not being a virgin. There is no shame in that and you shouldn't be in such a rush to "get it over with". Most guys would be more sensitive if they knew it was your first time.

Have you read the labels on your birth control? Have you tested it? The time to figure out how to use birth control is not when the event is upon you. Have some condoms and spermacidal jelly available and practice using it before you have sex. Spermacidal jelly comes in a tampon like applicator that you insert and it is a back up to condom mishaps which are much more likely to happen if you don't know what you are doing. You don't want to end up pregnant on top of everything else.

You can buy both at a drug store or a big store like Target without anyone knowing. The jelly is often in the "female" section, one brand is "Ortho Options Conceptrol Vaginal Contraceptive Gel". Comes in a blue box, 10 prefilled applicators in individually wrapped packaging.

Answer 3

Tell him the truth, If he is understanding then he will automatically know that you were nervous or you were scared of being virgin and might not accept you. If he understands then will take you lightly, if he is a true friend, he will be able to teach you probably a quick and nice style for you to enjoy, dont be stiff be will to learn. Good luck. But how old are you? if say below 18years then oral is better.

Answer 4

sweety i hope you're of an appropriate age (legal) cos i'm guessing that if you can't be honest with a guy, then maybe you're not. which then begs the question, are you ready for this kind of activity? dis-honesty is no way to start a relationship (the trust is already gone) and if you really believed that saying you're not a virgin would impress him then (i'm sorry) but you're with an idiot

Answer 5

How old are you anyway? The reason I asked is that adults don't usually make a date in their calendar book for an appointment to get laid.
Unless you're 16 or something and it looks like your parents are going to be out of the house.
The youth of today. God help us all.

Answer 6

Yes tell him you are a virgin so that he knows to take it slow b/c it does hurt the first few times!

Answer 7

I think tha you should just talk with him and let him kno that you are a virgin don't be ashame of what you are just if he can't except it then he is not the one that's my opinion

Answer 8

just tell him the truth...i haven't had sex before but i heard that guys like it tight....and i don't know if it would hurt because i don't have a vagina

Answer 9

Did you swallow?