And He's like my bff, and Hes confused as to whats happening. She likes him, but he has no idea who she is, and im stuck here in the middle helping them both out. What am i supposed to do? Can i get out of this?I want to help him, but im getting twisted up into a twisty relation ship type thing myself and its tearing me apart. Who should I help? What should I do? I NEED HELP!!!
I don't want any rude answers. They just annoy me, and i ignore them. Yes i know i cant spell.
2006-12-14 01:39:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ally D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she likes him so much then why doesn't she say anything?
Tell her, especially if it is driving the guy nuts trying to figure out just who it is, to come clean sooner than later.
Having the game go on for a week or two is fine and it will really peak his interest in her when he finally knows who she is.
Anything past that then it is a sad game that is hurting your friend and if you really are a friend, you'd put an end to it. If it has gone on for more than two week, tell the girl to fess up or you'll tell him yourself. She'll most likely complain about you gettng involved but you already are.
You've helped her for two or more weeks and now you're going to help him. If she didn't want you to be involved then why has she been accepting your help?
2006-12-14 01:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your bff and if he likes her thats great you should find a casual way to tell your other friend that he likes her without slipping that you told him. If he doesnt like her than hopefully he wont be an a** about it. Either that or dont tell him and tell her that you don't want to be involved anymore your scared you might slip or something. Well good luck.
2006-12-14 09:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kat A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice, don't get involved. it will only cause problems. tell your friend that you don't want to be involved, and if they respect you, then they will know that's the best thing for you to do. you shouldn't have to pick sides.
PS... what's with all the rude ppl on here any ways? It seems like not to many ppl know how to be nice any more doesn't it?
2006-12-14 09:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I assume you don't want to let him know that you are aware of who this person is. You need to tell her that you are stressed out. She needs to stop being elementary and just tell the guy. Let her know you will not be involved in it anymore due to stress. And tell him its stressing you out. Just stop helping them. Its good to help ppl, but if its driving you nuts its not good.
2006-12-14 09:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by ladie_eclipse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... i know it might be a little far fetched, but you might just have to tell him who she is, don't let her tell him cause if thats your friend, she might get hurt if he rejected her. but if you say something to him maybe he would be like oh, cool we can hang out, or if he be like, ugh no way. then you can just tell her that he is going through something right now and it would probably be best if we dont say nothing to him. and hopefully she wont push the issue. good luck
2006-12-14 09:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by iwonder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl that likes him should just telll him how she feels. Its the easiest solution. Set them up. Have them meet somewhere and then be like "hey i gotta go" but you two should sit here and talk.
2006-12-14 09:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by cutelil_bubble21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell each one that they cannot discuss the issue with you anymore. Tell each that you can't help them because you are clueless (in a good way).
2006-12-14 09:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is ur b/f then he musn't be confused & if he is confused between you and her then you better leave him, cz in future this will be a big problem for you all.
2006-12-14 09:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by like_2b_frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him who it is. If he likes her then you tell her that he likes her also
Viola
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2006-12-14 09:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how long she want to keep this up cause your ready to tell him who it is
2006-12-14 09:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋