im so sick and tired of my life im mean just everything and whats most of all is that i feel stupid. i keep letting myself be hurt by this boy who treats me bad and like i just cant stop myself. somtimes i say well i gotta take wha i can get but is that the right thing to to do ? the boy is using me he's in a long distance realtionship and wheneber his girfriend makes him horny he comes to me and is all nice but i wish he would be that way everyday it's like if it aint sex then it aint nothing he wont hold me or anything else just sex and when he's done he just leaves gets up and goes back to sleep pand after everytime it happens i cry cuz i feel like a prostitute or somthing or a hoe i just dont know i feel somthing for him i mean even if he just kisses my neck i get soooooooooooo weak and on a high that is soooooo high it's just unbelievable. i love him but i dont like being on the back burner or the second one he just so mean i tell him not to touch me and he does anyway just help
2006-12-14 01:37:30 · 13 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think i understand you completely, but you know, you have to find a little more self respect and find someone different who really cares about you and doesnt' just use you..you deserve more than that!
2006-12-14 01:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but you have 2 move on. Get away from this guy. The 1st step was knowin that he is using you. Now break it off and move on. You have your whole life ahead of you. And you special someone is waiting 4 you. You have 2 stop this and start looking after youeself. He is a waste of your time.
And you are not stupid. You are a bright, beautiful, smart young lady. You just made a bad decision. We all do. Now is your chance 2 help yourself.Move on.
2006-12-14 01:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in charge of your own life. Stop being somebody booty call, and by the way you should totally tell his girlfriend what he is doing, it's not fair to her and he should not get away with this crap. you feel sick of your life cuz you feel guilty and used, so therefor you have no one to blame but yourself.
Find a man that treats you well, obviously you have a good kind heart and are looking to give all you have to the right person. Do not sell yourself short. otherwise you end up loosing big time.
Be strong, Good luck,
Irene
2006-12-14 01:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know this is a toxic situation and you are being used for sex, and you are right--you are a prostitute only prostitutes get paid for their services so you aren't even getting paid (not that I am suggesting asking for money!).
Stop answering the phone, start being busy when this horny loser calls you. He makes you weak because you are attracted to him, but try and step back and look at the situation and pretend it was happening to a friend of yours--what would you tell that friend to do? You'd tell her to get rid of that jerk, wouldn't you? Now be your own best friend in this situation. You know what you need to do and you will feel better when you cut the cord and stop allowing yourself to be used.
2006-12-14 01:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you get out of the 'victim mode' fast and realize that you are responsible to look after yourself. If you can't resist the guy--avoid the guy. Make a new plan and put your own interests first. If a guy doesn't make you feel good about yourself, what's the point? Your emotional needs are not being met by this relationship (or encounters)....and the guy has shown you that he can not be loyal. You need to focus more on yourself!!
2006-12-14 01:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with someone who is using you. And you should respect yourself so that others can. One day you will be with someone that you truly love and you are not going to want that person to cheat on you so don't do it to someone else you know he has a girlfriend you shouldn't be involved with him at all. Be strong pick up a hobby and keep yourself busy and far away from this man put your foot down tell him you deserve better. And if he doesn't leave his current girlfriend for you then you know where you stand and hes not worth it. And if he does leave her for you whose to say he won't cheat on you. What comes around goes around. Your better off without him you deserve better and you will have that someday.
2006-12-14 01:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by sadgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your self be used like that you need to stand up for your self and stop letting everyone treat you as a door mat. I honestly don't think you love him you just don't want to be alone in life. But remind yourself as long as you let him do that he will. Take pride in yourself let him go and find someone who can love you for who you are . My advise for you is when you do find a new guy don't sleep with him at first if he stays around he likes you for who you are then you can go from there and have peace of mind that you are not just a sex toy for him.
2006-12-14 01:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Purplepassion9126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick this boy to the curb asap! he does not care about you, just about getting some while his girl is away. if you get away from him and this empty sex life, you will have a ton more self respect and be happier with your life because you won't feel dirty anymore. you deserve to be in a good relationship with a guy who is crazy in love with you too and will treat you like a queen. you won't ever feel that way with this guy that treats you like dirt. GET AWAY!!!!
2006-12-14 01:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! You are letting this guy use you! Have more confidence and self worth and you will find someone who will feel the same way about you that you do about them.
2006-12-14 01:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by MommyX2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my god, girl, quit whinning and get some backbone! You are doing this to yourself, grow up and MOVE ON.
2006-12-14 01:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋