i am a guy who is 18 years old
2006-12-14 01:35:27 · 5 answers · asked by tow869 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, as you're 18, I doubt if you're in love with either. You may be infatuated or in lust, but love? I remember when I was 18 and "love" wasn't part of the equation.
But what do you do?
Pick one that is the most into you. Don't go about hurting two. Pick one and stay with her. If you find out later that it didn't work out, then see if you can get back with the other one. I think you'll find that the other one will not be on your mind that much and you'll actually forget about her.
2006-12-14 01:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're in a pretty good place actually. If you really love that person you're with. Why question it? Maybe you really just love the other one.
however, if you're just confused or not sure about your current rel'ship the best thing to do is just talk about it with your partner.
You will be fine sweetie.
2006-12-14 09:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by light on 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not in a committed relationship (engaged, married, even going steady) with either of them, you're not doing anything wrong by investigating your options.
2006-12-14 09:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit back and think witch one you really want to be with but you can love two people at the same time but on diff
levels
2006-12-14 09:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by ben b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like how i met my b/f
pick the one that isn't pining for you
and would be alright without you
if the other one is whiney and to attachy leave her
or just be single
couldnt hurt you know figure yourself out, you dont always have to date someone
2006-12-14 09:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by jameses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋