My BF of about a year says he has a problem with presents, that it's very stressful. For my birthday we had a nice time going out, but he said "he knew exactly what he wanted to give me, but just hadn't had the chance to get it yet". This was over a month ago, and no mention of it since. Now for the holidays he says "let's not give each other anything, is that ok with you?" It seems a bit unromantic! Even a small gift is still nice, and he knows I'm not really materialistic
2006-12-14 01:35:00 · 2 answers · asked by aggie babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is really unromantic, i agree, a man should at least give a card, to express how he feels! I would give him a card anyway, like every holiday, and see how he responds.. I dunno what else to tell you sorry.
2006-12-14 01:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ally D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean or offend you in any way, but it sounds like he just doesn't want to spend his precious money on you. I would be very upset if I dated someone for a year and they didn't even buy me a birthday present!? and not only did he not buy it, he lied to you about getting it. If you've been together about a year then you have probably been with him through his birthday, did you get him anything?
Now on to Christmas, I just cannot understand why he would not want to exchange gifts with you? Exchanging gifts is a BIG part of Christmas...something has to be going on. That just isn't right.
Last thing, when you all go out to eat or to the movies or anywhere on a "date" does he pay for your meal and movie??? or does he make you pay?
2006-12-14 09:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋