I am afraid to be in another relationship, after being in one that was not really my first but was a relationship. If this makes sense help me! thank you
2006-12-14 01:24:57 · 24 answers · asked by Candie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Candie,
I can see only one clear answer to removing your fear.
First of all, understand that somewhere out there, is the one you were meant to be with. The one who will not hurt you ever and will make you the happiest woman on the face of this earth.
There is one way to tremendously increase your having that become a reality in your life and it is called Creative Visualization and Materialization.
Your subconscious mind is like a very powerful and obedient child. It cannot tell the difference between a real event, or an imagined event. So if you concentrate as many times as you can in visualizing yourself meeting the man you were meant to be with, see the two of you being happy and see yourself smiling as you know you have met the one.
Use your imagination to the max, and think about this all the time.
In the event negative thoughts enter your mind, just say to yourself, cancel, cancel, negative thoughts and again see your desires being played out in your mind.
Being a woman, you have a definite advantage, as you have the ability to engage your right and left sides of your brain simultaneously.
I am sure you have heard the saying:
" Ask, and believe, and you shall receive", this will work for you if you do just that.
Have a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year,
Darryl S.
2006-12-14 01:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship, i was afraid for a while since a broke up, for about 3 or 4 years. Anyways, i realized that the only way to realize who is best for you is to mingle with other people. It made me feel more confident, since that i was in another city and barely anyone knew me, so they can't judge me from there.
2006-12-14 09:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has had bad relationship experiences before but you cant give up on love . THe right person will come along sooner or later you just half to have keep your heart open so when they find you they dont find a locked door.
2006-12-14 09:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by tigerb29209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we consider a rope in our hand as a snake if it is darkness all around !
What I mean is we do precondition our mind and behavior by
remembering past life experiences....but you may miss the beauty of life's good things coming to you !
Don't think that you previous relationship stops you to start a new one , but think as this new relationship may fill your life with so much joy and happiness that you would forget bad memories of previous relationship ! Get my point! It is all in the Mind !
So Go ahead....Turn on the Light....Fade away darkness ...See the rope ....which you think is a snake...and move on new heights
of life :)
I wish you all d best for getting the true love !
See ya :)
2006-12-14 09:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cupid Express 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All relationships are different.
I feel by your question , you are not ready for a relationship at this time.
I think you should spend a little time just healing and taking some me time with your friends.
One person can hurt you but you should not punish everyone else because of him.
But...... don't jump into another relationship until you are totally healed, strong and ready for it...
2006-12-14 09:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So don't be in one. Who says you have to be a part of a couple? Be independent. Concentrate on your own interests, strength, power, friends, studies etc. When you decide you want a relationship go for it, but spend some time on you first.
2006-12-14 09:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take a little time off, dear... Why on earth would you DEFINE yourself by whether or not you have a boyfriend? Concentrate on your studies, excel in school, learn a new hobby, volunteer for a charity, whatever. Then when you're ready to date again, you'll "know." AND, you'll be a much better partner as a bonus!
2006-12-14 09:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All 5 fingures are not same, but dont rush into the relationship, try to be friend only, if he really likes you and care for you, you will come to know in couple of weeks SIMPLE :-)
2006-12-14 09:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by like_2b_frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the right time comes you wil be in a relationship- no reason to be afraid - enjoy life.
2006-12-14 09:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Camie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to overcome your fear. No two relationships are the same, this guy could be better or he could unfortunately be worse. You just have to do something abot this, if you don't you're just going to mope around and wonder about what could have happened.
2006-12-14 09:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋