MY EX and i decided to work things out, but we still argue over little things, he says I start it but Im not.?

Question

I think Im preg, but im not sure. We argued over that an his mom found out, she hates me anyway, she tells his dad, an his dad says to leave me alone. Well my ex says it doesnt matter what they say, so we came to an agreement that I wouldnt stop his job 4 awhile, so then later on that night, I guess after his parents bashed me he IM's on yahoo an says we should talk on the phone or see each other 4 a few weeks, but we can talk on yahoo. That really hurt, Im goin through alot of stress alreaf I lost 7lbs an Im already small for my age, I missed my Calculus exam. I mean what is up with that, he says he loves me but needs some space,

Im to stressed to eat, I cant even sleep without taking sleeping pills. I have exams the rest of the week, I cant even think striaght

And the thing is I love him so much, but this situation hurts so bad

My ex said that we shouldnt talk on the phone or see each other. I called him today an he said the reason why he told me that was because he said so. This has been goin on for a month an it started when his brother tried to run me off the road and I got my parents involved, ever since then his family are blaming it on me, an said I was lting abt what happened on the Highway, this caused my ex an I to break apart, his brother has been wanting to break us up an now he has won

Answer 1

listen to me. Take on thing at a time. Pass your tests. When your done with your exams start thinking about that possible pregancy and get it tested. When that is done and over with you can start thinking about your relationship with your boyfriend, and as soon as that is settled, you can think about his family. But dont you dare do that in any other order! You're going to make yourself sick.

Answer 2

OMG where do I start? it is PLAIN AS DAY that your husband is an extremely immature, utterly selfish and idiotic person. How DARE he smoke 'pot' with a child around and a responsibility to be some kind of father and role model. What an absolute moron. At his age he should have far more grown up interests and motivations. What is he, a 12 year old? People who don't want to give that **** up are unmotivated idiots who will NEVER change. Rather than wasting any more precious years of your life - and I mean WASTING - waiting for him to 'wake up', why don't you instead leave him and continue on with a healthy NORMAL happy life for you and your child away from this drug addict. And he IS an addict. It is unforgivable that he is still like this after having a CHILD. Also, Good on you for changing your ways for the better and not being influenced again by him. Also, I would say show him these answers to try and wake him up, but it wouldn't work, NOTHING does when they are like that. You have to realise that leaving his drug infested **** in a cloud of dust is the ONLY way

Answer 3

first take a test to find out if youre really pregnant, and then repeat the test just to make sure. after that maybe you can think a bit more clearly. if you just missed your period, some other things especially pressure can cause that.

your story is not too clear with me in some areas but you said he needs space. give it to him, hes not helping too much anyway. he may be confused and lost as well. concentrate on the matter on hand which is to at least pass your exams and eat and get some sleep.

Answer 4

Maybe you are just not right for each other, no matter how hard you try. Come to grips with the fact and if that is the case, make a swift stop to this lose-lose kind of relationship. There are plenty of guys out there.

Answer 5

People buy a new car usually because their old one is worn out and cost to much to keep it going. Always breaking down on them causing them grief and stress so they get a new one when it just isn't worth it any more. Seldom have i ever heard of some one buying the car back. They knew it wasn't any good and wasn't in good working condition. See my point?

Answer 6

Your suppose to argue over little things. Everyone does that's what keeps you close. I don't really know what to say, except for eat and sleep!

Good Luck!