2006-12-14 01:10:55 · 12 answers · asked by Bev J 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I'm praying you don't get a million answers that suggest yelling at or beating your kid. I don't know how old he is. If he's really young, he may just be experimenting and having fun. Women's stuff has so much more of a play element to it than men do. Lots of little boys want to be princesses and fairies for Halloween because they're pretty and shiny and sparkly. So let him play. He'll grow out of it.
If your son is a little bit older, talk to him. Tell him that you just want to know because you want to know what he does, not that you're angry at him. Ask him how he feels and what draws him to your things. Maybe it's still dress up and just for fun. But it may make him feel good, he may feel more drawn to female things. It is a possibility that your son is gay. Kids know when they're reaaallly young...that's why I hate when people won't accept that kids are born gay. And if he is, there's nothing you can do about it but support him. And support yourself. Learn about it. Know that it's okay to be disappointed or confused. But above all, love your son. Good luck!
2006-12-14 01:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
some anyone is only stressed out this variety. it is not a disease that a psychologist or a psychiatrist can handle, and to situation him to this variety of interest will tell him that there is something very incorrect with him, and that the way he's upsets mom and pop. in case you fee his self self belief and experience of self nicely worth, do no longer make a huge deal out of this. whether that's only a piece, it is going to pass. If it is not, he would be dealing with plenty topics bearing directly to this without your nicely intentioned disapproval including to his burdon. If this deeply offends you, do no longer something to enable his habit, yet neither could you condemn it. in the journey that your undertaking is greater for his very own adjustment as a individual, create an ecosystem the place he can thoroughly indulge his proclivities, and communicate the place and while such habit is proper. the two way, he will desire your love and help, and no volume of detrimental interest will substitute his wiring. Disapproval WILL, even ifcontinual him to indulge himself in secret, and willcontinual a wedge of mistrust between you and him. I relish pass dressing. i'm a reasonably effective craftsman, an officer in a adult males's provider corporation, and a loving, heterosexual father of two fantastic sons. I indulge myself in inner maximum, and different than for the self loathing and confusion I experienced in my youthful human beings, due in a huge area to the detrimental interest from my mom and dad, and the psychological therapy i became subjected to, it has no longer in any way affected my place in society. Spare your son the soreness I experienced. help and love him without circumstance.
2016-12-18 13:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by waltraud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is under the age of 10 it is ok! just because he likes to put makeup on and wear dresses does not mean he is going to be homosexual. He just likes to do what his mom does. whatever you do don't ever tell him to stop crying like a girl or don't play with that that is a girl thing. Because then you would have to tell your daughter she can not play with airplains and play sports. SO many young boys a taught at a young age "don't be a sissy" and taught to be rough, tought, and not to show emotions, and end up having social problems and self-image problems in the future.
2006-12-14 01:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by samee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Catch him in the act of doing it. Like hide a video camera or something. When you do, don't scream at him and demand an explanation. Calmly make him explain what he is doing. If he only did it once maybe it was gender bender at school and he was too embarrased to ask you to wear your clothes. Just don't come down to hard.
2006-12-14 01:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't think, watch and see if he really is doing those things. If he is, sit down and talk to him about the situation. If he feels that's what he wants to do then let him know you'll be there for him and accept him as he is but let him know he's going to have to buy his own clothes and makeup. JUST BE SUPPORTIVE TO HIM!!! That way he could be comfortable and won't hide anything from you.
2006-12-14 01:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Bit 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old is your son?
Depending on his age he will deny it. The best thing to do is talk serioulsy with him about this. Bringing it out in the open is the best thing to do. Calmly talk with him about it and let him that it is nothing to be ashamed of, it may not be anything serious, but if it is he will atleast know he can come and talk to you openly about it.
2006-12-14 01:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by 9929 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd show him how to apply make up properly and figure out which outfit looked best on him.
2006-12-16 14:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think put a small cam in the room
and if u find out that its true take him to counsiling
2006-12-17 06:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Natasha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have fun
2006-12-14 04:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign him up for boxing
2006-12-14 01:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Gui 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋