she spy on me and i can see her looking out the window
2006-12-14 01:09:34 · 24 answers · asked by tania_monserrate 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Wow,feel flattered!You must be the fashion statement of the neighborhood..your neighbor must be idolizing you!!You have a fan following nurture it,even with all that she copies from you she would always come second to you..relax and enjoy her aping you..lol
2006-12-14 01:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree, that's flattering on the start yet then gets very stressful while it is going too some distance. in case you do unlike eachother plenty and you at the instant are not bothered approximately offending her, then merely tell her to end and get herself a existence then steer away from her like the plague! If she is conscious what underclothes you have have been given i anticipate she's eyeing up your washing that's somewhat pervy so which you're able to attempt threatening her with the police and which you are going to have her finished for stalking you! the two way, be confident and assertive and get in there first in the previous she tries to tell people who it somewhat is you copying her and not any incorrect way around. solid success, Jo x
2016-12-30 09:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blinds, shades, drapes- hang whatever appeals to you to keep her prying eyes from peering in your windows. Good idea anyway, for security purposes, and there are all kinds of weirdos (besides your neighbor) out there. If she's copying your clothes, hair, or stuff on the outside of your house- just remind yourself that she is insecure enough to not have her own ideas, and just go on with your life and don't look back.
2006-12-14 02:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, be careful. Did you see the movie: Single White Female? It didn't end good!
Tell her: I think it's very flattering that you like the same things as I do but I feel like you don't really have your own style. It's exactly a copy of me. How about we go on a shopping spree and we find you things that will look best on you? And talk about how all the actresses have their own "stylists" and tell her that you will be hers.
OR
If you know she's in the mall shopping, go up to her when she picks up something just like yours and tell her, "Oh, no, I don't think that's right for you. It looks just like the shirt/pants/etc. I have. I think you would look better in this shirt/pants/etc." And show her some styles that would be cute but different from yours.
Good luck.
2006-12-14 01:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by nochickenhead 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why get even with such a neighbour, infact be proud cos you seem it be a diva in her eyes. But if you cant take any more then approach her and tell her a piece of your mind especially on the spying part.
2006-12-14 01:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by mume 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband considers copying a form of flattery. When he built a porch she asked him if he would build her one!! He declined but she got a carpenter to build one for her too. We got our house painted others followed suit but none picked the same color. That happens in neighborhoods unless you got an exact duplicate don't worry about it. I did get a weather vane on the roof and nobody copied that that is cause nobody knew where to find one ;-)
2006-12-14 01:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness, she may be the one to call the police if somene breaks in your house.If she copies you, just buy a sign that says"I LOVE___(put your name in the blank), and put it up in your yard, she will not copy that......When she's looking out the window and you are looking at her look out, show her your teeth, then she'll see that you are not freindly.Hope it helps.
2006-12-14 05:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imitation is the best form of flattery.
We all get our ideas for fashion, decorating, cooking, advice from mags that highlight celebs hairstyles and lifestyles. It is done by everyone in one form or another.
Just ignor it and continue living your life. Eventually you will do something that she isn't able to do. Also, don't give her the 411 on where you purchase things.
2006-12-14 03:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should plant some fast growing trees or bushes to block her view or even better a fence and if her property is joining yours, you can get her to pay half!
2006-12-14 01:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Yo Mum Mum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spy back on her and copy what she does, do really dumb things so she looks really crazy when she does them!
2006-12-14 01:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋