okay so i've been going out with this guy for nearly two weeks now - we were good friends before - i really like him (not sure bout love him) but i just wanted to know how long it was before other people told their boyfriend/girlfriend they loved them?
We're both 17 and each others 1sts
we didnt kiss yet
2006-12-14 01:07:53 · 11 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my own experience, I have never said those words until I felt a peace about it. You have to have no doubts about saying those words to a person even if the feelings are not mutual, and you must feel comfortable saying them to a person.
2006-12-14 01:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people in the relationship. Some people fall in love right away while others take months if not years to feel comfortable to say those 3 words. It may take time to feel that way towards another person. Then again some people never feel love towards their significant other until after they split up and realize what they had lost. I was lucky and found a lady that I was comfortable with and was able to tell her that I loved her a few months into our relationship. We have been happily married for 2 1/2 years now.
2006-12-14 01:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yang420 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question then its too soon, only you know when the right time is. Their is a difference in "I love you" with a friend/family than to a Boy/Girl friend. It doesn't matter how long it took others because there is no 2 people alike that have the same time-line of emotions. You're only 17, do what makes you happy.
2006-12-14 01:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ronaldo09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit. Just make sure it's longer than a few months or so. It will probably take 1 or more years to see if you guys are really for each other too! Sometimes it's better to show it first and make sure he's doing the same by watching his actions. I hope this helped.
2006-12-14 05:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wait until u feel like u really love them. for some it takes a year, for others a few days. since u were friends before... i'd give it like 3-4 months.
2006-12-14 01:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when you love him, but wait doll, don't just tell him, Love is such a powerful and hectic but beautiful word, don't waste such a word on a loser that you actually not sure if you love or not
2006-12-14 01:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll noe when you feel it. theres on thing you gotta noe i hate it when young couples get together and tell each other they love on another when they noe its not true bc they eventually brake up... wheres the love in that? well all i can say its timeing.. you'l feel it, once you do you want to let him noe bc at that time to you its so perfect (thats the timeing). i wouldn't say you fall in love in 2 weeks.. give it time.. you still have alot of time getting to noe one another.. im married and theres a whole lot i need to noe... and its all fun! you just have a crush sweety.. and big crush...
2006-12-14 01:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ibelieve you are both nervous and anxious.personally, i've waited as long as 3months to tell someone,the reason uncertainty.i believe when you tell someone you love them it should be felt from within not cause it sounds good.get to know this person , than you will be able to tell if it is love or if it's lust.
2006-12-14 01:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you deem the time is right.
2006-12-14 01:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by blacksabbath200000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you deem the time is right.
2006-12-14 01:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋