i went on a date with my best mates boyfs mate. we got on really well but hes just not my type.
he wants to see me again but i feel that if i do i will be leading him on.
my best mate wants me to get together with this guy as she wants us to double date!!
this guy really really likes me. what do i do???
i dont want to hurt him, my mate or my mates boyf!!
2006-12-14 01:04:29 · 24 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have fun... get a xmas prezzie... then dump him on New Years Eve and leave him heartbroken and suicidal.
2006-12-14 01:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once, Do what you want!! who cares about double dating! Its not a major problem so just tell him hes not your type and tell your mate to grow up and to put your feelings first. Good luck
2006-12-14 01:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Minnie Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them straight, that you are not interested you like him as a friend but nothing more
I think if you are who I think you are don't you have someone else that you are interested in ( if so ) your friend I presume knows this, maybe you could use that as an excuse or the fact that you are still getting over an ex if it wasn't that long ago that you split always works!
Good luck with it anyway
2006-12-14 01:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest! tell him you really like him as a mate but you cant see ye being anything more. Tell him you feel it would be unfair to be with him in the hope you could grow to fancy him as you could be keeping him from a girl that would be perfect for him.xx
2006-12-14 01:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls it's your personal relatioship you should only do what makes you happy.
Don't ever start what you can't finish ,cuz if you start going on those dates at the you may now try to run trust me that is when you will really be hurting everyone.
2006-12-14 01:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go out with him just because your friend wants go go on a double date...From my experience double dates can be a nightmare anyway.
Your friend and her boyfriends shouldn't be upset if you don't want to go out with him, its not the end of the world...Just tell me nicely that you are not interested.
2006-12-14 01:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by grayder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you're not sure how you feel just yet and it might take time to get to know him better. There's nothing wrong with going out in a group to movies ot meals, and long as he always knows what's on your mind. You never know, you might find out there's more to him than you think!
2006-12-14 01:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by October Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop loooking at your life as though it is a complicated scientific conundrum.
Just do what the hell you want.
If you don't tell him straight, are you just going to carry on until your married and retired with grandkids, then one day say to him on your deathbed 'I never really thought you were my type'?
2006-12-14 01:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to your mate that, as much as she'd like you to like this guy, you just don't but you'd be happy to go out as friends.
2006-12-14 01:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by punkrawkprincess81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what your heart says
its better u avoid the get together if u wanted to be safe
2006-12-14 01:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by jo p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found out that just because you think someone isn't your type it doesn't mean they aren't. Give him a chance as a friend first. Don't let your friend push you into something just because its what she wants.
2006-12-14 01:07:47 · answer #11 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋