My boyfriend told me a couple days ago that he is leaving to Texas because his mom wants him to go back , he said he is probably going to stay for 6 months,and he told me that we wasnt sure if he wanted a long distance relationship,because he has been thru that, and it didnt work out, he told me that he is falling in love with me, and that he doesnt know what to do, i dont know what to do either,i dont know if i should brake up with him right now, or just enjoy the time that we have left, and brake up when he leaves. I really love him,and i told him that i would wait 4 him, and he told me that he has no doubts about it, but that he doesnt know if he is going to be able to have a long distance relationship, because he know how he is (i think he means like mayb since is a long time, he would cheat on me) What do I do????
2006-12-14 01:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by Alejandra Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on. if he knows now that he will prob cheat or cant make it work then its not worth the effort on ur part. nothing u can do can make him want to stay with u if he is already thinking of alternatives. cut ur losses and find someone that WANTS to stay with u and will work at the relationship instead of going with whats easy and available
2006-12-14 01:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats a toughie maybe you should enjoy yalls time bc if you brake up with him now.. you'll be depressed or something... just enjoy the time... why would he cheat? now thats where i would get a little upset? if he "loved" you why would he go on and search for another girl.. he's just gonna break that girls heart... that doesnt sound so smart. right? well if hes determine to do that.. maybe you should just brake up with him when he leaves.. and move on.. he'll come back and maybe talk about yalls time apart and see if there is still any chemisrty. i hated long distant relationships to.... nvr noe what happens on their side of town...
2006-12-14 09:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the time you have left with him. When he leaves you guys can make your decision on whether to have a long distant thing or just break it off. You never know though. At lot can happen really quick. Don't loose faith in him. If it's meant to be it will be.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 09:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should enjoy the time you have together, and when the time comes to seperate you will know how to go about breaking up or staying together. If he would cheat on you, are you willing to sleep with all of those that he is sleeping with? You do so when you go there.
2006-12-14 09:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true most long distance relationships dont work. There can be cheating and no one to tell you. Continue if you know you will be visiting each other coz love grows deep when you are close, otherwise just forget him.
2006-12-14 09:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by pinkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has concerns that he will cheat on you on the terms of six months, he does not love you and that is a fact. Babygirl don't waste your time there are other fish in the sea. If he really loves you he will either stay or insist on taking you with him.
2006-12-14 09:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by luvjamie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the time you have now, and when he leaves feel free to date. When he comes back ya might get back together and might not. You never know you might find someone better. Desides if you wait for him, you never know he might find someone to. So its better to break up when he leaves and just tell him its better ya should be freinds, and when he comes back ya see what happens.
2006-12-14 09:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~Nadia~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of texas? im traveling to texas today for CHristmas break..i'll keep a eye out on him for u k sista..lol.jk..Well it all depends how u see each other. if u guys are in love with each other, you will have no problem trusting him with girls around and vice versa..u know this answer honey. Good luck!
2006-12-14 09:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by starlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just brake with him ,
now thats just some bull**** if he gone tell you that he know that he gone go into another relationship with another girl..
but yeah i think you should
2006-12-14 09:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Cieralicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with him...i no its easier said then done but hell your still young im guessn so go for it ....go with him...aint nothing stopn ya..unless you under 18 then your kinda stuck with choice..if you cant go, enjoy the time with him and dont leave on bad trems.....have fun and hold that thought that hes is yours and always will be as long as you love him....but if you can go with him then go..
2006-12-14 09:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by vincent17092003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋