1 he flirts with her all the time during our lunch period
2 he only sits with her because my friends all ha te him and they didn't even give him a chance
3 she's dating his brother now but its obvious she still likes my bf
4 i love him and i really don't want to break up with him but i don't know what to do and i'm getting really screwed up in the head over this (plz don't ask what kind of screwed up in the head i really don't want to get into it)
2006-12-14 00:58:09 · 14 answers · asked by kittybrini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well to tell you da truth she does still like him but if he loves you and you love him don't worry about it hes kool!!!
2006-12-14 01:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Problem Solver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll choose whoever means more to him. And if he does love you, if and only if, he wouldn't have feelings for another, ex or not. My advice is, see what happens. If he stays, then good. If he chooses the other, then you have to let go and respect his decision. P.s. I have been on the exact same situation a few months back, except that I was the ex.. He tried to leave her for me but wasn't able to because she begged too much and I think he was afraid that she might do something suicidal. The girl's very fragile and I was stronger emotionally compared to her.. Idk if he really wanted me tho, coz ir he did then he would've left her for me. Anyway, they're still together, but I don't think things are going well with them.. I'm not bitter or anything, I've actually moved on. My point here is, if he could be happier with someone else, you have to give that to him because he has the right to be happy. Love hurts. Someone will be hurt but in the end everything will still go well. :)
2016-03-13 06:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to tell your friends that if you can't like my boyfriend then you can't like me. Then you tell your boyfriend that you need to stop flirting with your ex and tell her to leave him alone cause they don't go together anymore. Don't be afraid to confront your man cause trust me I have learn now I confront him all the time. But be a woman, not saying that you are not but you should tell your boyfriend don't trip off your friends. I like you if they don't and let him sit with you
2006-12-14 01:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do...realize that your still in school and that almost all relationships NEVER last. Realize that your not really in love with him and that there will be tons and tons of guy for you the rest of your life. Don't stress out about stuff like that because you will look back someday and hardly remember his name.
2006-12-14 01:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. There is absolutely no way in the world you can understand what is going on in his head just by thinking about it all the time. The only real way to find out is to ask. If he says he doesn't like her and you are unsatisfied with the answer then you have trust issues with him and shouldn't be together.
2006-12-14 01:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Olly Octopus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do if he still likes his ex it out of your control . You should break it off with him now and save yourself alot of heart break in the future . Lifes short you shouldnt settle for someone who doesnt love you ,someone will come along and be everything your looking for and they will love you and only you ,so make sure your not with the wrong one when the right one comes knocking.
2006-12-14 01:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by tigerb29209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW she sounds like a winner...because only a winner would date their ex-boyfriend's brother...
I think you answered your own questions, he does still like her. But honestly it sounds like an episode on Jerry Springer.
I think you should move on, as painful as it may sound, you would be better off.
2006-12-14 01:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and let her know how you feel,otherwise the situation will get out of hand sooner or later,it is only a matter of time.
Let your feelings be known,don't be silent about it,or you will regret it later.
2006-12-14 01:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly ur very young and how can he do this tel him that ur not comfortable with the fact that he is over friendly with her dnt let him sit with her if he dosent agree leave him u will meet many many many guys dump him thats the only option
2006-12-14 01:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, what a mess.
Give yourself some respect and get a guy who treats you nicely.
2006-12-14 01:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by Marcos Canada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋