I love my gf very much and want to marry her and have kids with here. but i always think about other girls or look at them. and i have a friend that i love so much but never told her. what is worng with me. my gf is perfect and she does so much for me that no one else has ever done. so i feel to bad now.
2006-12-14 00:52:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not ready for one to one relationship. Go sew your oats. If you really loved her and want to marry her you wouldnt feel this way.
2006-12-14 00:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now and we had the same problem. i know when he's looking at some other girl, but it's normal for a guy to look around. Isn't that why guys look at porn? guys look around because they are image people--they get turned on by images. but girls gets turned on by emotions that's why we don't understand why guys like to look at other girls. the way that guys look at other girls has nothing to do with how they feel at all. Guys really don't see the connection between the differences between what turns on a girl and what turns on a guy.
there's nothing wrong with you!! it's normal. keep looking-- just don't touch or talk to them! oh.. and NO EYE CONTACT WITH THE OTHER SEX!
about that friend that you love so much-- don't tell her, because she might take it the wrong way and then you might lose your girlfriend.
2006-12-14 09:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by quyen83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only looking...that's normal.
It is no different than buying a Playboy magazine.
If you have fantasies about making love to other women...
That's OK too...
But if you are actually thinking about having sex with someone else...then something is wrong. And you are not ready to get married. Nor do you love her as much as you think.
2006-12-14 09:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing bad, if JUST look. It's normally. I'm quite sure, your gf also looks at other guys. It's not cheating. But you do something about your feelings to friend. Maybe you just aren't ready marriage yet.
2006-12-14 08:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such a coincidence!
I’m married with a Japanese girl
Anyway you are ok as long as you only think you are pretty normal...
My secret is every time I see I cute girl I just say I love you to my wife. She is happy I had my dirty thought and every one wins good luck
2006-12-14 09:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by maurospini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man its normall to look as long as thats all your doing . I have been married for 3 yr and i still look all the time I just have to be alittle more discreet or thats my *** .lol The day you stop looking at other girls is the day you die my friend.
2006-12-14 08:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by tigerb29209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my opinion is you shouldnt marry that girl while you are loving someone else. getting married is not a game. having kids is not a game neither. you have to be with that girl till you die if you marry her. think carefully. if you love that another girl so much, just tell say that to her.
LOVE IS NOT A GAME.
2006-12-15 18:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by ★japanese lady★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with looking. It is when you lust in your mind or you touch the other women that is wrong. Maybe you need to step back and rethink things for a while.
2006-12-14 08:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rugir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong but you should to gentle with your girl friend always her. don't give any opportunity's to hurt her heart because of this weakness. i know it is male being to seek more than one girl friend but you have to remember if she doing the same thing's to you. how do you will feel? just think.......and best of luck for your happy married life friend.
2006-12-14 08:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by raymond_ioi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have an adoribal korean bf and i catch him look'n at other girls some times but if you love you gf now forget about the other girl never leave the one you love for the one you like cause someday the one you like will leave you for the one they love
2006-12-14 08:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋