So I mean like should I believe in the girl I really love despite the fact that there are gossips and rumours that she is having a relationship. But I believe in her and she also denied the gossip. Should I believe in her?
P.S. We are 14. And previously I told her my feeling but she said just want to be friends. Maybe she think in a more mature way and is prioritizing education.
2006-12-14 00:49:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone should be given the chance of being trusted or believed. Gossip and rumours, hurt more people, than actual accidents! People can be so unthoughtful and mean, not thinking of what the person being gossiped about will feel. May be they dont care, it doesnt give them an excuse. Gossip is close to lying about somthing. Neither group talking really knows what is going on with the person of their subject. Oh, they might have heard this and that, from a friend, but who says the friend is 100% right?
I wouldnt go believing all that you hear, until you have personally confronted your girlfriend and ask her yourself. She is the only one who knows the true. Give her a chance.
2006-12-14 00:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 14. and since she said that she just wants to be friends with you when you told her how you felt--just move on. what if she denied the relationship that she is having with another guy to protect you? Maybe she doesn't want you to know about the relationship because she doesn't want to hurt you.
i would just move on if i was you. there are plenty of fishes in the sea and if you dwell on one that doesn't want you, then you might miss out on someone great. just blow it off... and look into another direction.
-hugs-
2006-12-14 08:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by quyen83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already told you she just wants to be friends so she doesn't want a relationship with you right now. So how much does it matter if she is having one with someone else?
2006-12-14 08:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by couty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She wants to focus on her education like she should. Have some respect boy.
2006-12-14 08:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my she does or maybe the rumors are true , either way you are only 14 and have plenty of time to find the right one right now school should be your main focus
2006-12-14 08:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by life is short...live it up.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she "just wants to be friends", she doesn't want to be your girlfriend right now, regardless if she has another boy or not.
2006-12-14 08:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by blacksabbath200000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she "just wants to be friends", she doesn't want to be your girlfriend right now, regardless if she has another boy or not.
2006-12-14 08:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she just wants to be friends then that means SHE JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS, nothing more. Sorry to break that to you, but you have to look elsewhere.
2006-12-14 08:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short and you are so young. Kind of ignore her and see what she does. You'll have so many girlfriends soon!!!
2006-12-14 08:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mum2Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really like her if you do tell her about your feelings & kiss her.
But if you don't like her tell her get out of my way.
But if you want to be her friend be.
2006-12-14 09:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by sisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋