how can i forget the pain of love?

Answer 1

u cant...so instead of tryin to forget it, turn it around from pain and mak it into comfort

ReeRee

Answer 2

Honestly i wish i could give you every answer and tell you just to forget about it but even i know that never works! You can't forget the pain of love and you can't just erase the person from your mind. It will get rough at times and it may seem like you will never get through this but i promise you i will. When i get to thinking about past love and hurt i think of all the good times we shared and how great the relationship was while we were together. Sometimes it's good just to sit back and think about good times you will find yourself smiling and then you will realize that the person left you with great memories and thoughts! This will help you!

Answer 3

Honesty,,,I don't think we ever forget the pain someone we love causes us,,,,but is love really supposed to hurt us??? In my opinion,,,I don't think love is really supposed to hurt,,,,if the person that we love ,,, really loves us back ,,, why would they hurt us like that ,,, why would they want to cause us pain ,,,,
which makes me think that what we thought was love,,,, was just merely infatuation,,,,which I think is confused for love alot,,,,
I think the difference between love and infatuation,,, is that their is an un-trustiness in the relationship,,,their isn't good communication,,,,their is doubt about how the other feels and what they will do next,,,their is alot of dis honesty,,, and un loyality,,,and their is alot of aggravation,,, and arguing,,,and a sense of not knowing if the other person is happy or not,,,if they want to end the relationship,,,and WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT??????

with LOVE,,,, I think it is a un-explainable understanding of two people,,,and they can sit for hours and never say a word,,,and know in each others hearts that they are happy and they can just sit and be with each other,,,, like being in a room of a thousand people,,,and the only two people that you can hear breathing,,,is you and the one you are with,,, never saying I'm sorry I have hurt you,,,,never being aggravated or angry or undecided where your heart is or what you want with the other person,,,,,you just know from the moment you look at them and forever until you both leave this earth,,,,,you never question how the other one feels,,,,you just KNOW

so to answer your question,,,,,,,,,,,
do not forget,,,remember what you felt,,,,deal with it,,,, and move on knowing in your heart,,,that everything in this world happens for a reason,,,,and what that relationship was wether good or bad,,,,was not meant to be,,,,,she/he was not the one,,,,,and when it is time for you to love again,,,,you will and,,,, you will know if they are the one,,,,GOD has something in life better for you,,,and he is having you deal with this pain for a reason,,,it is not true love,,,,,or you would still be together,,,,,Im not saying what you felt wasn't sincere,,,please don't think that ,,,, but what I'm saying is that what you felt,,,,wasn't felt from them,,,, and that is why I don't think he/she was the one,,,,,or you wouldn't have a broken heart you would be waking up in each other's arms ready to face the world,,,and life,,, TOGETHER,,,,,

I HOPE THAT I HAVE HELPED YOU AND YOU TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM TRYING TO TELL YOU AND DO NOT GET OFFENDED,,,THAT WAS NOT MY INTENTION,,,,,I JUST AM STATING WHAT I FEEL LOVE IS,,,AND IM 35 AND STILL HAVE YET TO FIND TRUE LOVE,,,,BUT HAVE FOUND ALOT OF INFATUATION,,,,,,,AND TO ME THEIR IS A DIFFERENCE,,,

GOOD LUCK TO YOU
DAPHNE

IT WILL GET BETTER,,,,WITH TIME,,,,,

Answer 4

Dwell on it for a little bit (not an unreasonable amount of time...depending on how long you were in love, and the situation of the break up) You are going to anyways.

Cry. Write about it, sing about it, just find an outlet. But go forth and just remember one thing:

Love like you have never been hurt.

Answer 5

you don't. you just learn from it. time heals all pain. jumping into someone elses bed don't solve the problem,either. hopefully, the pain will lesson as time goes on. and it generally does. if love was painfull, it was not meant to be. you will find love again and with this experience, it should not be so painful. hope i helped a little bit. don't dwell on the pain. move on with your life.

Answer 6

you wont for get the pain of love as it will happen over and over again at least til you find the right person so don't give up as the old say in goes theres plenty more fish in the see and look to the future

Answer 7

Think about the beauty of life.

Make new frnd, talk with them ,laugh with them. Share old things, learn new things,
Do all those things which you like to do.
And don't forget you are the one, and only one for whom someone is waiting with a heartfull of love, care and trust.
Why think about the past?? Forget what happened, be good, be yourself.
You can have me as your new frnd

Answer 8

You don't it always stays with you one way or another. You may not feel the break in your heart but there are barriers ppl put up. Time dosen't heal it just numbs the pain

Answer 9

Patience, time, life goes on, there are more fish in the ocean, that person wasn't good enough for me. Talk to friends or a counselor.

Answer 10

Time.