so....i developed really strong feelings for this guy i've known for a year. i would do anything for him and he is one of my best friends. NO matter how badly i want it to go away it just wont. i really care for him. i just dont know if it is love. he is the only guy i get butterflies when i go and see. I go crazy not talking to him, he's the only one who can make me smile when i am crying. i dont know how i would react is i was to ever lose him. he is my everything. someone please help me to know for sure, is it love or just a simple crush.
2006-12-14 00:38:24 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is Love~! Its a really nice feeling....dont make up your mind...ask him now. ASAP if you make your mind up and get No for an Answer! You'll live in misery for long until it dawns upon you to move on in life! So please get to work talk to him find out....then make up your mind.
What am asking you to do ...is something i regret not doing and losing time dreaming of her! I wish i had been a little practical beforehand and not fallen after she said No!
Think about it~ It hurts me bad Now? Can you handle the Pain?
2006-12-14 00:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I on no account received frightened, sweaty, or clumsy (possibly that is seeing that I'm constantly clumsy!). I simply get this satisfactory calm every time I'm with my boyfriend. I simply think like I'm in a location wherein I real belong. I most effective received butterflies as soon as after we first began out, however they have got on no account come again. I consider that truly, deep real love isn't whatever like all people thinks it's. Sure, we now have stated "I love you," to one another fairly plenty, however I did not particularly have an understanding of how deep he cared for me till final night time. He used to be using me residence and we practically received right into a auto coincidence. He used to be so shaken up that we needed to pull over and the very first thing he stated to me after I wrapped an arm round him used to be, "I might have killed you." I are not able to precisely positioned my emotions and without doubt no longer his into phrases, however I now become aware of that he cares for me so a lot more than I might have imagined. My boyfriend and I are nonetheless very younger (he is 19, I'm 18) however I have a sense that what we've will final a long time. We recognize each and every different for what we do for each and every different and we help each and every different's desires and objectives. I wish him to be the excellent musician he may also be seeing that it is going to make him comfortable and he wishes me to be the excellent horse again rider I may also be seeing that he is aware of that it is going to make me comfortable. Both folks even have equivalent beliefs, either one of us wish a loving longer term courting that has no obstacles and I'd love to consider that we now have observed that.
2016-09-03 14:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the matter of love is and can be very confusing at times. There are moments when i get confused to wonder if it is infatuation or Love the problem is is there's a fine fine line between the two. It is very confusing i even have to admit. Well it sounds to me that at first you were infatuated but then it developed into something more. It sounds like to me that you have developed an undying devotional love for this guy and my advice is tell him this maybe he feels the same way and is just waiting for you to say something. Don't lose this guy it sounds like you truly care and love this guy. Good luck and i hope everything works out for you.
2006-12-14 00:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you are in love because everything just feels "right". There is nothing you can do or say...but you can just feel it. There is a moment when everything comes together, and you realize that the person you can't get out of you head is the one person that you feel better being around (and hopefully he can't stop thinking about you too).
Just make sure that you are not forgetting about other aspects of YOUR life...not everything can revolve around the person you love...you have to take care of YOU too.
2006-12-14 00:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point you are in infatuation. That is where you start having all these "feelings" for someone. Love is a decision, and something that happens over time. For instance, I don't always enjoy what my children do, but I will always love them. My husband can make me angry but I have chosen to love him. Love is a decision one makes inside, after all the chemical feelings have gone away. Infatuation are the feelings one has for a person, it is the chemical response to get humans to procreate.
2006-12-14 00:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by pansyskunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a really big crush that is turning to love. Time will turn it to love. Does he feel the same way? If he does, go for it! If he does not, then do not let yourself fall. It hurts too much; I know.
2006-12-14 00:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know without a shadow of a doubt that if that person became physically, mentally or emotionally helpless you would do what ever it took to take care of them and not resent them for it because you love them.
2006-12-14 01:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in love
u'll just know it cause ur heart beats slower at faster whever u see the person, u dream of him, u know his thoughts
his voice just makes u melt
and if there were to be only 1 person left on earth: u'd want it to be him
2006-12-14 00:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions
can you see a future with this guy?
who is the first person you think of every morning?
what about the last person you think about every night?
how important is his happiness and saftey to you?
can one kind word from him make your day better?
take your time answering these questions, and once you've answered them you'll have your answer to your own question
2006-12-14 00:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Curt C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the Oracle said: Nobody can tell you when you're in love. You just know it, balls to bones. HB
2006-12-14 00:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Hunter B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋