Do alot of men like unpredictable/fiesty girls?

Question

i can be really unpredicatable and fun in relationships. sometimes a bit cheeky but i have good manners and i dont see myself as creul...butt, sometimes i get on peoples nerves with my behaviour..i'm a narcissist in a way and can have a short attention span and can sometimes fall quiet..i'm generally loud and happy but sometimes i wanna be quiet n moody. do guys like girls who they cant predict al lthe time? i'm not erratic as such, just changeable depending on my mood...sorry if this seems jaded too, i cant really explain in-depth what i mean...thanks x

lol, my mans kinda weird too..he can be distant then full on, the funny then sarcastic and offending...were probabley perfect for each other reading the comments so far..hes a male diva

aha, spot on...my man usually controls the dynamic in bed..guess i'm not a lost cause

Answer 1

As long as you have a great personality, sense of humour and are sexually adventurous, I'd love to have sex with you...

Answer 2

Sophisticated men? No they hate ppl who do not communicate regularly...you may have some manners but they will think of you as a rude person if you cut communication for long periods of time and do not focus or listen when they try to tell you stuff. Coz when these guys speak they speak right out their hearts....No practice sessions in front of the mirror for these confident extroverted men.

You seem to be the Badass man's woman....if you r indecisive and can handle sarcasm go for someone who will keep you on your toes all the time and will not allow you to make choices 90% of the time he is aroun you...only when he is low he might become a kitten from a lion!

Answer 3

It depends on what mood you catch me in. There are times I have no desire to deal with that crap and I'll just get to stepping. No worries, find another woman.

Then there are times I like the challenge, especially when I get them in bed and turn that feisty woman into a total submissive.
Mission Completed!

I've encountered many women like you described and found out they were looking for that one guy that could control them and not willing to take crap. Like I said, it depends on the mood I'm in. Sometimes that sh!t can be too draining, especially if I have a lot going on at the time.

Nice chatting. Holla back!

Answer 4

A lot of men are aroused by unpredictablility and drama. It makes things very interesting at times for them. Most older more secure guys who are looking for something long term and serious find these qualities as annoying as a two year old child.

Answer 5

I think guys like a bit of a challenge and you certainly seem like a challenge! However there is a fine line between being a challenge and just being plain obnoxious and difficult.

I don't know which one you are, but if you are really honest with yourself, you will know which category you fall in to.

Answer 6

not really..i guess if the gal is more open-minded, helpful,ready to adapt and with gud luks (wow wonder woman) i gues guys wud definitely dream of such a gal!

Answer 7

(mmm sounds interesting) For me its not the matter. when dealing with this (unpredictable) kind of girls majority of men will feel uneasy and will leads to misunderstanding. Anyway nothing wrong with that .

Answer 8

i like stability -- i hate the bi-polar type (fun one minute then who knows the next) leave them for the psycho dudes

Answer 9

some do, i dont know if id say alot but yes some do

Answer 10

See a shrink.