i was dumped by the man i love, who i thought was mine foreve r, i found out that i was wrong, all along he has been cheating on me, after i found out i asked him about it, he denied, beat me up and left me but i still love him though
2006-12-14 00:15:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mphi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He "beat you up"? and you still love him? You should get professional help, the sooner ther better hon.
2006-12-14 00:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the first thing you need to do is go on down to the local support group and buy you a big bag of self esteem. Next dump the looser that cheated on you and beat you up and find you a real man.
2006-12-14 02:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never experienced this n i'll never understand the pain u're goin thru, but this i know:
as much as u love him, u outta love urself.. as long as u're not in a marriage, u are free to go out with anyone.. u don't deserve his beating..
why not try occupying urself with an activity? (cycling, running, helpin out with children's day care..) MAYBE it might help u go thru this tough time.. forgetting him is probably the toughest thing to do, but hey, u deserve a better man.. so why not treat urself to somethin u enjoy..
for all u know, when u've come out of this hell, bruised or unscathed, u'll be a stronger woman..
2006-12-14 01:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to "love"? You sound as though you have an unhealthy approach/attitude about relationships and this will set you up for a lifetime of pain and disappointment, not to mention stress. Examine honestly what it is you think you "love" and what you reap from this involvement. Good luck.
2006-12-14 00:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By snapping out of it and not be in love.
He cheats on you and beat you up...and you still love him?
What sort of a person are you?
Don't you have any pride?
You better find yourself some girlfriends to educate you in dealing with men.
2006-12-14 00:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately need to work on your self esteem and ealize that you are worth a goog, truthful man.
2006-12-14 01:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and move on.. why suffer all these pain? Do you deserve to be treat this way??
2006-12-14 00:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋